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Originally Posted by adpiucf
... but I really want to be there for my friend and she's making it really a lot harder financially than it needs to be. That really bugs me.
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I think you need to send her an email that relays this sentiment alone. Tell the bride that you know she must be very busy but if she wants you to particpate as much as you want to participate, then she needs to tell you the details that she does know by X date, otherwise you will not be able to attend. Tell her that not being there will surely break your heart, but that you cannot jeopardize your professional and financial plans in order to do so.
Something doesn't sound quite right here. Maybe the bride is having cold feet and that is causing her angst? Maybe the groom is?
This is surely not an easy situation...and it is her day. But if she wants you at her day, she needs to give you some help so that you can be there to support her.