Not the process per se, but I came up with the idea of chocolate covered strawberries for her because well it would be special for a zeta. Or everyone hand her a white violet etc etc.
I think more or less I should have phrased my question differently sorry. And I will ask around.
I was hesitant about a crown, because I know it is very sacred and did not want it to be where she could not wear it. Thank you for the heads up I am sure that saved me quite a bit of time lol.