what should i do or what would you do in this situation

[julz]

ok this is not the first time this has happened but anyways its frustrating me to death...ok my boyfriend and i had a fight not a big one but a fight never the less, he did' nt come home that night didnt call nothing i still havent heared from him, but what he does everytime is he'll call in a few days and sweat talk me back, what should i do and how do i stop this, he runs out on any little chance he can get ,one time i went to take a bath to calm down from a argument when i came out he was gone.need advise.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by julz

ok this is not the first time this has happened but anyways its frustrating me to death...ok my boyfriend and i had a fight not a big one but a fight never the less, he did' nt come home that night didnt call nothing i still havent heared from him, but what he does everytime is he'll call in a few days and sweat talk me back, what should i do and how do i stop this, he runs out on any little chance he can get ,one time i went to take a bath to calm down from a argument when i came out he was gone.need advise.

Let him go. Set him free. You are headed into a "domestically violent" relationship. Move on so that you have meet someone worthy of your wonders...

And GC is not a crisis center. You need to talk to somebody. There are a few GCers that are crisis counselors, but you need to ask them if they are willing to assist you.

[cheerfulgreek]

I agree with AKA Monet. Get rid of him.

I hate guys that run away from arguments.

[Laak 315]

I'd talk to him about it when he's calm and you guys aren't in any sort of a fight...Have you already tried to do that? If so, it's a tough call...He probably just doesn't really like confrontation and doesn't want to say something he might regret...Try and talk to him about it when you both are calm...If that doesn't work, you should probably leave him. A person not willing to talk about problems in a relationship is a person not fit for a relationship...thats my opinion

[mystikchick]

if he runs away when you have arguments, he has the problem solving skills of a child. he's too afraid and immature to deal when you guys fight clearly, so i say ditch him. otherwise you're just going to prolong the misery and uncertainty.

[cheerfulgreek]

He would make a horrible husband.

[ZeroCool]

How long does he go away for? You should ask him where he goes - very strange.