A question for the helpful guys of GC.

in_the_zone · #1 05-07-2006, 02:47 AM

I don't really want to get into depth about my issue cos ultimately I know what I need to do to take care of my situation, but I do want to ask the helpful guys of gc their thoughts on the following question:

What advice do you have for girls who just don't seem to know what they want jn terms dating the right man for them and pursuing relationships? You know the girl who is cool and fun as long as things are left on her terms, the girl who plays mindgames to deflect attention from her own insecurity and the girl who focuses too much on the superficial.

I HATE admitting it cos I know I'm gonna get ripped, but I am that girl. I drive men up the wall even if I like them. Even though I've just taken a break from dating, I'm still doing the same garbage and sabotaging potentially decent relationships. Ultimately I just want some guy to truly understand and appreciate me and enjoy my youth with me, but I'm too darn confused about my own self to get that. It makes me angry and I do want to change, but every guy takes my concerns for granted, even tonite's date..so I'm asking for your guys view. Maybe you can share something I haven't thought of. I've worked through this issue so much, but I guess I need to understand the man's pov before I can start to be a better date for guys.

BobbyTheDon · #2 05-07-2006, 02:23 PM

1- Quit dating pussies
2- Quit being a bitch
3- Enjoy your life
4- Sex it up as much as you can
5- Once you are used and abused, find a rich guy

tld221 · #3 05-07-2006, 05:54 PM

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Originally posted by in_the_zone
I HATE admitting it cos I know I'm gonna get ripped, but I am that girl.

what?! i totally thought it was a hypothetical situation...

Ultimately I just want some guy to truly understand and appreciate me and enjoy my youth with me, but I'm too darn confused about my own self to get that.

take a number...

why dont you take the time to figure your comfused self out. seriously, not even trying to be funny. stop spending time to figure the guy's pov out. think about it like this: there are some heinous, douchebaggy, cornball, loser asses out there who are in relationships. hopefully youre none of the above. in this case, just chill out.

Tom Earp · #4 05-07-2006, 06:05 PM

IF YOU ever figure out the Female of The Species, then let all of us know!

KSigkid · #5 05-07-2006, 10:26 PM

Relax. Basically that's it.

Rudey · #6 05-08-2006, 01:45 AM

Show me a picture and then I'll tell you. Also please provide your dress and chest (breastises) sizes because that's important too.

-Rudey
--Real importantey as the illegals who make my tacos would say

JonInKC · #7 05-08-2006, 06:53 AM

Paxil.

f8nacn · #8 05-08-2006, 09:02 AM

Before anyone can love you for you, you have to learn to love you - for all of you. You have to search within yourself to find out why you play games on the ones that you actually care for and want to be with. The guy who can put it with all of you is the person that is meant for you (and vice versa).

James · #9 05-08-2006, 10:44 PM

I think I just threw up in my mouth

I am just joking with you, but you have to admit that aounds like a hallmark card.

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Originally posted by f8nacn
Before anyone can love you for you, you have to learn to love you - for all of you. You have to search within yourself to find out why you play games on the ones that you actually care for and want to be with. The guy who can put it with all of you is the person that is meant for you (and vice versa).

PiKA2001 · #10 05-10-2006, 01:23 AM

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Originally posted by in_the_zone
What advice do you have for girls who just don't seem to know what they want jn terms dating the right man for them and pursuing relationships?

If you don't know what you want in a guy or a relationship you shouldn't be looking for a guy or a relationship.

Grow up a little, get your shit straightened out, then start dating.

BobbyTheDon · #11 05-19-2006, 02:19 PM

Get in the zone

AUTO ZONE!