A Question To All The Aka's

[virtouswoman]

HI, IM NEW TO THIS WEBSITE AND WELL IM GLAD I FOUND IT BECAUSE I HAVE A COUPLE OF QUESTIONS TO ASK. I AM OVER 23 Y EARS OLD AND GOING TO SCHOOL. I FEEL LIKE IM TO OLD TO WANT TO JOIN AN UNDERGRAD LINE, IS THAT TRUE WHAT I AM FEELING. AND I WANTED TO ASK JUST BECAUSE I KNOW A GROUP OF GIRLS IN THE SORORITY, SHOULD I STILL ACT LIKE I DONT KNOW THEM WHEN I GO TO FUNCTIONS THAT THEY ARE HAVING, SHOULD I ALSO BRING A FRIEND TO THESE FUNCTIONS EVEN THOUGH MY FRIEND IS NOT INTERESTED, SHE IS JUST THERE TO SUPPORT ME. AND LASTLY, HOW SHOULD I APPROACT THESE GIRLS LETTING THEM KNOW THAT I AM INTERESTED. WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO WEAR IN THEIR FUNCTIONS, AND HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO LOOK. SHOULD I TELL THEM OFF THE BAT THAT I AM INTERESTED IN JOINING OR SHOULD I CONTINUELY GO TO THEIR FUNCTIONS AND THEY LL SEE T HAT I AM. PLEASE RESPOND TO HELP ME NOT BE SO NERVOUS AROUND THESE EXCELLENT GIRLS OF ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA

[nachural]

yeah and you're telling me you missed the big "How to become an AKA" thread at the top of the forum? Good luck dear!

[RedefinedDiva]

So many views... so few responses! lol!

1. Please read How To Become an AKA
2. Members of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. are WOMEN, not "girls."
3. If you KNOW AKAs on your campus, why would you go to one of their functions and pretend NOT to know them?
4. Why do you need a support system to attend events?
5. Please perform a search and introduce yourself in the Sisterfriend thread.
6. There is a thread already in progress about the age thing.
7. There is a thread already in progress about proper attire.
8. All caps are an internet no-no.