So one of my friend just found out his GF is an escort

[cashmoney]

Normally I dont post the drama that surrounds my life but I really want to know what some of you think about this and how I should approach my boy. So, here's a little past info on this deal....


I have a friend that I've known for a good minute, like 5 years. Out of the 5 years I've known him he has been dating this chick named Ashley for about 3 years. Now, since the start of their relationship I didnt like the two of them being together. Maybe it was because I almost banged her and still wanted to in a way but regardless I still didnt think they should be together. Anyhow, they had thier issues like all long term couples do and they did all the stuff like meet the families and become good friends with them and blah blah blah.....well, about 2 weeks ago my boy called me up and said he had a funny feeling about his girl. Like she's been acting wierd lately. Now this guy is an idiot, he totally trusted his girl all the time....was in love with her and wanted to marry her. Well, when i talked to him about it all a few weeks ago I joked with him about her cheating on him and told him shit was bound to happen, and that what he really needed to worry about was the ninja catching up to him (just because guys like us are always after girls like her). He laughed it off, said nothing popped up on him the whole time they have been dating. Well, today he called me up sounding like he hadnt slept in days and his speech sounded like he ate 10 xananny bars....I could barely understand him. He said he needed to talk to me so I said i'd call him back when i took off for lunch. Hour later I called him from my office, he anserwed the phone sounding like he had been crying or did a lot of anti-anxiety drugs. Make a long story short....he found out his GF/finace was an Escort!!!!! I was like "WTF!?!?!?" Apparently one of our other friends who's a dirty motherfucker found out about this website of chicks that are escorts/prostitutes and saw her on there listed under the Tampa girls. He called my boy and he flipped out, didnt believe him. Then our friend sent him the link to the site and to her page. I think he went in to shock after seeing it. I mean this chick has by the hour rates, double team rates, in call, out-call, this girl will come to you. It was unbelievable to him. Never in a million years would he have thought that about her. Now me, I had my thoughts about her. I quit coming around them for a long time because everytime I was around she'd be flirting with me while my boy was around and I woulda hit it had I stayed around longer. And the scariest thing about all this to me is that the girl is actually kind of good looking. Nice tits, tight body, ANY guy would hit it. She's the hot chick in the club you'd try to take home to bang later. If you saw her at the beach you'd holler at her in a second. And this girl was cool as hell. You can tell she'd be a dirty slut in the bed, but she's one of the nicest people you'd ever meet. She became good friends with my boy's mom, and his parents are wealthy in the 8 figure range. I just cant believe no one really saw through her shit the whole time. How do any of you suppose I talk to him? I've never been in this situation and I hope to god I never am. I mean, I feel like shit for joking with him a little while back about catching that HIV from her cheating.....but now he's really freaking out. And as if the STD thing wasnt scaring him, he literally wont ever trust another female again. He's going to end up like me and others of our crew who do shit like get the girl's cell phone in-call and out-call record up to date by the hour if we want (online), that way you know whos calling her at what time or who she's calling at 4am. Personally, I've been trying to tell his ass for awhile now to get 4 small voice activated tape recorders that record when he's not around and place them in different spots in the room where she wont find them. One of our other boys tried to tell him to shave off the edges of her blinds just enough to the point where he could see in and to set up a path down the side of her house where he wouldnt step on any twigs or leaves and make noise. Even still, we've all been telling him to make a copy of her key and check her bed sheets when you know she's been at the house for a long time and when you know she's going to be at a certain place for awhile....still, he didnt listen to any of us. Now, he is literally at rock bottom....and I dont know what else to say short of "She was a slut, what do you expect?" So, any suggestions?

BTW, here's that page for those of you who live in Tampa/Orlando and actually go out.....you might know her.


(Don't worry, these arent nude)

http://www.onesexysecret.com/home

pics of her:

http://www.onesexysecret.com/gallery_one

http://www.onesexysecret.com/gallery_two


BTW, this isnt dowing any of you freak girls out there on GC who do this stuff for a living. All I'm saying is don't lie to your man about this crap or you might end up face down, floating in a south-florida canal.

[James]

Craig you have the best posts lol.

She has a nice body. Not a great face though. Funny, her face has that "nice" girl look. So bag the face right?

I wonder if she was a stripper first?

As far as STD's goes . . well she is probably safer than the average bar slut. . . or nice girl with an "oops" experience because she probably demands protection and takes precautions . .

Plus her clientelle is probably a little more ritzy than the average fraternity boy banging a Frat Rat thats been passed around her freshmen and sophomore years in her quest for love and attention.

Will your boy care all that much? I mean if she is a good girlfriend . . . well its just a job . . that pays more than your boy will probably make in decades unless someone gets him a job that pays him greater than his value.

I fail to see why we hold sexual partners against a girl when some of us guys have over a hundred girls to our credit. That strikes me as unfair.

Nor am i sure that it makes us morally superior that we gave our shit away . . . versus her being paid for it. In fact, she might be one up there.

As far as what to tell your boy: If he was happy before, well, he should consider staying. Its like dating a porn star. If he can't deal with it . . . well than he has to leave.

Also, if he can't deal with it, she was right in her judgement to hide it from him.

[Rudey]

Originally posted by cashmoney
She's the hot chick in the club you'd try to take home to bang later. If you saw her at the beach you'd holler at her in a second.

Are you for real? for sure?

Maybe if it's late, you're horny, it's dark, you're drunk, and your friends egg you on to go pig hunting.

-Rudey

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by Rudey
Are you for real? for sure?

Maybe if it's late, you're horny, it's dark, you're drunk, and your friends egg you on to go pig hunting.

-Rudey

Anytime I'm at the beach or at a bar I'm getting my drink on.



-you'd still stick it to her. don't lie.

[sugar and spice]

I gotta agree -- she's not horrible, but I definitely know better looking girls.

The moral of the story is don't let them put your picture on the internet if you don't want your boyfriend to know you're a hooker.

[Rudey]

Originally posted by cashmoney
Anytime I'm at the beach or at a bar I'm getting my drink on.



-you'd still stick it to her. don't lie.

That's not an accomplishment. I'd also pee on her, but I doubt that would mean much. Lots of girls get banged when nobody would want to date them either because of looks, personality, or the fact that they're just whores and the dude needed a whore for the 2 minutes he banged her.

-Rudey

[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

Don't sites like that sometimes misrepresent themselves?

Is it possible someone else is using her photo?

[Taualumna]

She's not very pretty...I thought girls who worked in escort services were usually very glamorous looking. But I guess some guys want "regular" looking girl so people wouldn't be so suspicious.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Don't sites like that sometimes misrepresent themselves?

Is it possible someone else is using her photo?

No, the site is legit. A couple of douche bags I know bought pornstars last superbowl from that site.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by Taualumna
She's not very pretty...I thought girls who worked in escort services were usually very glamorous looking. But I guess some guys want "regular" looking girl so people wouldn't be so suspicious.

I didnt say she was beautiful or anything, but she does have that nice girl, bar slut, you'd take home kind look to her. And thats what makes it scary. Its doesnt get any worse, the girl is a prostitute.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by Rudey
That's not an accomplishment. I'd also pee on her, but I doubt that would mean much.

-Rudey

Damn, I've never tried to whole peeing and shitting on chicks type of thing.

[ZTAngel]

She's a butter face.

[kddani]

a little bit of makeup would do that girl wonders.... I'm guessing she has some on, but it's not doing anything for her in photographs.

[KSig RC]

Originally posted by Rudey
Are you for real? for sure?

Maybe if it's late, you're horny, it's dark, you're drunk, and your friends egg you on to go pig hunting.

-Rudey

I'm pretty sure that after a few beers, neither of us would realize she has a face period - past that though, I think you've got to be able to get more value for your dollar in tampa, if you're shopping for some dome, right?

Sucks to be your boy, craig, I think I'd probably just puke once really violently and be done.

[KillarneyRose]

She's a butter face (as in everything looks good butter face). I'm sorry she broke your friend's heart, though


ETA: I didn't see your post before I wrote mine, ZTAngel. Great minds think alike!