If you need to you can catch up on the thread here:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=60443
but anyway, the newest drama in my life...
This Sunday night Caleb shows up at our college group thing at my church. He only came once last semester (before I started going), so I thought hmmm, maybe he came to see me and get to know me. Well he got there late so he didn't get to sit by me and was all the way across the room. One of my friends asked him if he wanted to go out to dinner afterwards (i hadn't been invited) and he asked "well,does stormy want to go" (i didn't know this at the time) so she asked me what I was doing but I had to babysit. When my friend and I both got home she IMed me and said that they had talked about me at dinner. He really likes the way I look and all that, but he wants to get to know me first before we go out on a date. He suggested that me, him, the friend, and another friend go out one night this week. Well, my friend shot that idea down b/c she said her and the other girl would end up talking the entire time and he and i wouldn't get a chance to know each other.
She said that he knows I have his number, and he wouldn't be surprised if I call him. The friend also said that Caleb and I could most likely end up dating if I'd just make the call. but that is where the dilemma lies. I HATE talking on the phone and to top it off i'm a rather shy person until I get to know someone. I know most guys don't really enjoy talking on the phone. Whats the maximum of time I should talk before I make up some lame excuse about why I have to get off the phone. Also guys, what are some things you like to talk to girls about (so i can get an idea of what questions to ask him). As interesting as is it I don't want to end up talking about college majors/classes/etc. the entire time.
I could use some encouragement to actually pick up the phone and call... just thinkin about it makes me wanna puke thats how nervous i am.
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