Need Advice!!!
Well, I have this neighbor who's daughter was accepted at CSULB where I attend. Her daughter has her heart set on joining a sorority & I've told her about the 7 sororities we have on campus. I didn't give any real details just their names & that she should check out their national websites b/c only 3 sororoties have chapter websites on our campus.
Now comes the problem. Her mother & her firmly believe that b/c they know me, she'll automatically get a bid from not only Sigma Kappa but also the other sororities on campus. I told them numerous times that I will not give her any preferential treatment (I'd rather pretend I don't know her) & that it's best if she keeps her options open about the other 6 houses b/c they are all phenomenal. They are now asking me to take them on a tour of campus & wanna see our house. They also wanna buy merchandise with letters on it to see which ones they like the best. It's getting weird. I don't know what else to do.
They are starting to freak me out. I don't want to ruin her chances by spreading stories about her before RUSH but I hate the thought that a serious nut like this may actually end up in a house. I have never promised anything but by talking to her, I may have inadvertantly set the ball into motion.
HELP!
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