Greek representation good or bad?

[lusherhotboy]

Just a question for greeks in general from an outsiders point of view. Just wanted an honest opinion on things I see greeks do. A lot of people question the purpose of greeks because of the bad press you guys get. Not just from the pledge stories, but I don't see a lot of the values exhibited that these organizations were founded for. I sparsely see community service work and see a whole lot of showboating and beef between the frats and sororities when I thought everybody is for the same common cause. I know that there are bad apples in every basket and I know that every individual is responsible for there own actions. However, I thought that greek organizations chose individuals to represent the organization and brothers/sisters share the same valuse and are suppsoedly on one accord. However, I see fights over stuff like walking on each other plots, step shows, and even greeks taking nalia from each other. I myself have gave greek life a long hard look and am very interested but am sometimes discouraged when I see my friends who are in frats go through bull for just walking around with their letters on. As far as direction of greek life, where do you guys see it going. Originally, the black greeks were created as a positive outlet for black college students as they weren't accepted in the early 1900's. They were very proactive in the civil rights movements, but what now. I appreciate any feedback.

[lusherhotboy]

I apologize to all greeks if I have offended anyone but I was just seeking an honest opinion. I never expected any backlash. Really didn't think that the subject was that sensitive to where I would individuals would not want to speak on the matter. If there was anything wrong with what I said forgive me. I wonder if would be different if I were greek?

[K.O.T.S]

hey man, I was the exact same way before I pledged. I grew up around greeks my whole life, so I constantly saw the good and bad of them. I often heard some bad mouth another org. but mostly in a playful manner. I also saw them take more responsibility for the community and younger society(teenagers mainly). Since I have crossed I have a deeper perspective on Greek life. And it is like any other part of life. meaning there will be people that did for good and people that did for bad. Some people join just to make them somebody(so i can party, so i can network, so i can find a boyfriend/girlfriend). Some join b/c they still believe in the org's values and want to be a part of that. It may look like we can be petty over plots and "pari", but one thing you have to understand is that there are plenty of doors opened for you once you cross(i.e. job oppurtunities, scholarships, popularity, and all that popularity brings) and many people know this. So sometimes a person that is not in your org. will where your letters for the fame and that can start problems that will result in greeks looking bad. Also, just like in life, some people will test you to see how tough you really are i.e. walking on your plot, breaking your strut line, etc and if you allow others to disrespect you regularly you will never have their respect. I do not agree with "actin' a fool" in the name of my frat but it comes with the territory. All I can tell you is that once you go greek, if you still decide to, is that your actions willl be magnified. Know why you are really doing it, and realize your life will change for the better and worse (depending on your viewpoint). overall I believe Greek life is still great for the black community. We have Tavis Smiley, Cornel West, and Jesse Jackson just to name a few greeks that are helping us greatly. and as for my myself, I am more motivated to be involved with the communtiy and my personal goals.

[MizTigger]

well all i can say is, if you're interested in greek life don't just look at the situation on your campus. look at the organization as a whole. i grew up around members of greek lettered organizations. they impacted my life tremendously. sometimes you may not see that an organization is doing something positive, but that doesn't mean that they aren't doing it. you may have just missed it. but if you are interested in an organization then you need to be thinking of what you can bring to the table, what can you do to make the organization better. yes there are a few bad spots in greek life, but i honestly believe that the good outweighs these bad spots by a lot. your viewpoint of greeklife will change once you get to stand on the other side, if you choose. i have no regrets and i love delta with all my heart. it's all about dedication.

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by K.O.T.S
....overall I believe Greek life is still great for the black community. We have Tavis Smiley, Cornel West, and Jesse Jackson just to name a few greeks that are helping us greatly.

You, sir, are THOROUGH. Shout out to whoever made you. Aren't you a neo?