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Advice
Here is some history. I met this guy my freshman year in college and he ended up going home at the end of the semester but never came back. Well we were friends so I always sent cards and stuff like that. Well my sophmore year he came into town and I got to see him. And then 2 1/2 years ago he called me but then said he lost my number. Then about 5 months ago he called the phone company and our phone bill just happens to be in my name and he got it and called me. And we have been seeing each other ever since then.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now but we are only able to see each other about 3 days every 3-4 weeks because of his job. We started arguing mostly because of me because I knew he would call me back and I would be able to talk to him on the phone longer. I realize now that was really stupid. But we broke up and at first he told me that it was because he wanted to be here with me and he knew he couldn't but I know him and that just didn't sound like him so he finally told me the real reason and it was the arguing. Now he says he still loves me and always will but right now he just can't do it. I feel like maybe he didn't feel appreciated and it was really hard something that I definately was not used to, him being gone for such long periods of time.. Now he is going to be home in about a year and I know I should not wait on him but I don't know what to do. Especially right now. Should I just let him have his space now and maybe the time apart will make him realize the love that we did have and if he doesn't then I guess it was't meant to be. I love him so much and I believe that he loves me it is just about the hardest thing ever because I have never felt so helpless.
I am one of those people who believes the people that are in our lives are there for a reason. And he came back into my life after 3 years for some reason I just don't know why.
Should I just leave him alone for a while and see what happens?
Thanks for the advice in advance. Sorry it is so long.
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