Ok I'm sure there's like a thousand threads on this but I don't really care, I want ppl on the board now (new and old) to give input....
My heart is in 4400 pieces. The bf and I broke up today after a year and 9 months. For those of you who broke up under amicable circumstances, how do you stay friends if that really is what you both want????
He's my first relationship, first love, first everything. When I'm 80 I will still be in love with this guy. Unfortunately, his depression has destroyed our relationship and I can't do that to myself anymore.
I guess I'm confused b/c a) what are the rules? How often do you talk? Hang out?? I've never broken up with anyone before, let alone someone important
and 2) I don't want to desert him, he really needs ppl in his life right now if he's going to get help....but I'm afraid if I stay too close it will be too hard...
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh--any help for my pathetic ass would be greatly appreciated....
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