age difference

The Original Ape · #1 08-17-2000, 05:54 PM

What is the greatest difference in age you could tolerate between you and man/woman? Why? Why not?

Sexy Mocha · #2 08-17-2000, 06:02 PM

When I was 17, I was seeing a man who was 38...so that would have made it a 21 year difference.I guess now...I wouldn't date a man more than 20 years my senior or less than 5 years younger than me. I have a thing for older men.

[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 17, 2000).]

AKA2D '91 · #3 08-17-2000, 06:10 PM

SEXY MOCHA...You sure do!

LadyAKA · #4 08-17-2000, 11:23 PM

This may sound corny to yall, but hey it is 11:30pm and I am still at work, last time I was here late I was trying to get with the professor

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Anyway can I just say love happens, I am not looking for an older man, or someone younger, if he is there then he is there, old or young as long as we have the chemistry!! Those are just my thoughts at this late hour.

AsianMoon · #5 08-18-2000, 12:45 AM

Well...I'm married and my husband is only two yrs. older than me...I've never had a thing for older men but I could never say I never would. I agree w/ LadyAKA...it just depends on the chemistry...and maturity! Most 25-30 yr old women are in a different place than men that same age so sometimes it's nice to have someone a little older who won't play games...I'm not saying ALL men are like that...so let me just clear that up before someone jumps all over that statement.

Catwoman · #6 08-18-2000, 10:13 AM

When I was 19 I was seeing a man that was 38!
He was good to me and I was "mature" for my age soooo the men my age just didn't do it for me. He was the only one with that much of an age difference. I am married now and my husband just turned 28...I will be 31 in July

If I were not married now...I would never date a man that was 50! I plan on having children and I don't know too many older men who are wanting that.

(My father was 26 years older than my mother! They were married for almost 40 yrs and had 10 kids....whoa!)

HER_STORY · #7 08-18-2000, 01:22 PM

i prefer to stick with my age group so that we can experience things together - 2 years above or 2 years below is my range. but i always end up with the 2 years below !!!

nikki25 · #8 08-18-2000, 02:51 PM

I am 24 now and probably wouldn't date anyone over 35. I would prefer being with someone older than I because my "real" age (the way I think/wisdom, etc.) is actually 30.

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Ice Cold Kreator · #9 08-19-2000, 03:03 AM

I wouldn't date any woman older or younger than 3-5 years...

But maybe that's because I'm young

06,

Ice Cold Kreator

Queencece · #10 08-20-2000, 12:27 AM

When I was 16 I dated a guy who was 22 and I just ended a relationship with a guy who is 22 also (not the same guy)....I am now 18...but the truth of the matter is that I won't date anyone more than 2-3 yrs older than me unless the chemistry was really really strong.
And as far as datin anyone younger than me it seems to me that everyone is older than me at least by a year or two. Im 18 and a sophomore in college. I feel like Im younger than everyone, but it's cool

Peace and one!
Queencece

Professor · #11 08-21-2000, 01:55 PM

I don't care anymore - just as long as you have good credit, work, can read, write and show me respect - - we can H O O K-U P!

Catwoman · #12 08-21-2000, 02:12 PM

LOL@Professor.

sankofa15 · #13 08-21-2000, 05:14 PM

i got to agree with the PROFESSOR..... but i do draw the line somewhere...i want a man not a father.