I have been teaching for five years now. This school year will be my sixth. As the years go on, it seems as if this problem with parents is getting worse.
I HATE PTA MEETINGS! The parents seem to come ready to fight. Nowadays, if you point out a student's weaknesses, some parents take it as a personal affront. It's very frustrating. Everyone wants to blame the teacher.
I teach ninth grade English. The failure rate in my classes is HIGH. I have tried everything to stimulate my students, but "EVERYONE" hates English. I don't let this deter me, but it is hard to watch the students that don't even try. They put in zero effort. What can I do?
I have been pressured by administration to be more "flexible" in my grading techniques. In other words, they want me spoon feed my students. I refuse to do that. It's sad because my students grades range from 99% to 40%. First of all, it's hard to teach when there are different "learning styles" in the classroom. But I make adjustments for any student that is having difficulty with a lesson.
My students are capable of doing the work but for whatever reason, they would rather fail. A lot of it has to do with the fact that they are in ninth grade. The maturity isn't there yet. College is years away and they just want to "play" now that they are in high school.
A lot of teachers will not be returning this year because of the low pay, lack of parental support, and the growing problem of violence in our schools.
I refuse to give up on my kids. Several of my past students came to visit me during their Spring break vacation. They really made me feel good. After being in college, they can finally appreciate what I had told/taught them as HS freshmen.
There are many parents that are supportive and believe that I am doing my very best for their kids. These are the parents that check homework, attend PTA meetings, and drop by to check on their child's progress several times during the school year.
It's really hard to take it when a parent curses you out when their child didn't pass the class. Then, when you suggest things that they can do to help their child, they say: "Isn't that your job?"
Sorry this post is so long. I return to work in two weeks and this has been weighing haevily on my mind.