This Bites!!

SparkliiQTMTSU · #1 07-16-2003, 12:13 AM

Ok so How about this situation really bites big time. Some of you may remember me and I have not been on here in such a long time but anyways here goes.... I pledged ZTA Spring 2002 alright well some stuff happened and I was unable to be initiated that spring so I was going to be initiated in the fall but MTSU decided to screw all my classes up and I ended up only being erolled in 1 class and according to rules I have to be enrolled fulltime to be initiated. BLAH anyways so I took last spring off to deal with some family matters and now I have to go through formal recruitment!!!!! I absolutly hate the hecticness of formal recruitment being as I have never really gone thru it but have been on the other side of it when I was still pledging ZTA. Do you think that I could talk to someone and get out of going thru formal recruitment and just go ZTA. I know thats where I want to be although the lady I talked to in the greek life office told me I should explore other options as well. BLAH! anyways Im open to any imput

Thanks! Love ya guys!

Nichole

ToBeSororityGrl · #2 07-16-2003, 12:47 AM

so you went through the pledge program? or did i misinterpret that? i mean if you pledged and just didn't get initiated i wouldn't think you'd have to go through formal, hmm very weird to me. did you ask any of your ZTAs?

SparkliiQTMTSU · #3 07-16-2003, 12:53 AM

Thats what I was thinking but apparently according to rules or something Im having to go thru formal recruitment. I know that ZTA is where I want to be granted I have not looked at the other sororities on campus but still I love the girls and have gotten to know many of them really well. Ive been talking to someone in the greek life office but shes not much help. Im thinking about talking to someone at ZTA's IO to see if there are any rules that say I have to go thru formal rush after being a pledge for too long.

I wish this was easier lol

sherbertlemons · #4 07-16-2003, 12:57 AM

Did you ever talk to any of the ZTAs in your chapter about this issue? That would be where I'd have started first.

aephi alum · #5 07-16-2003, 08:39 AM

That is evil. I remember how excited you were about joining ZTA, and this must be quite a slap in the face for you.

Who told you you had to go through FR - the Greek Life office or ZTA?

It seems to me that if you completed your new member program, including making grades and being once again enrolled full-time, there's no reason you shouldn't be initiated.

Hope everything works out

Little E · #6 07-16-2003, 10:01 AM

I dunno, if ZTA is like us, if you are not initiated one year after the date you were pledged you have to be re-bid. And if campus rules then come into play, ZTA might not be allowed to just bid you until they are allowed to give bids again, ie formal rush. Someone correct me if this isn't true.
Good Luck!
Lil E

astroAPhi · #7 07-16-2003, 10:39 AM

Does ZTA usually get quota, or are under total? If not, then you could probably not do formal recruitment and accept a COB. I'm assuming that since you didn't go through Formal Recruitment, you were COBed.

I know they have "no talking" rules, but I think this is a special case that warrants you notifying ZTA that you're not going through Formal Recruitment to "check out other chapters". Someone PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong, but I would hate to see Nichole get screwed because of a misunderstanding.

Good luck hon.

shadokat · #8 07-16-2003, 11:34 AM

Did you sign a bid card?? If you did, you are bound to ZTA for the year. You should sign bid cards whether joining through formal or informal recruitment. If you signed that card, the bid is usually good for a year I think...it could differ by chapter. I would find this out, because if this is the case, you needn't do anything.

aephi alum · #9 07-16-2003, 11:39 AM

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Originally posted by shadokat
Did you sign a bid card?? If you did, you are bound to ZTA for the year. You should sign bid cards whether joining through formal or informal recruitment. If you signed that card, the bid is usually good for a year I think...it could differ by chapter. I would find this out, because if this is the case, you needn't do anything.

It's been over a year, though. I suspect she'd have to be re-bid, but I don't understand what's stopping her chapter from doing so before FR (unless they're over total?) My feeling is that she should be welcomed back with open arms, without having to go through FR again.

PenguinTrax · #10 07-16-2003, 11:41 AM

I PMed you!

sugar and spice · #11 07-16-2003, 11:44 AM

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Originally posted by aephi alum
It's been over a year, though. I suspect she'd have to be re-bid, but I don't understand what's stopping her chapter from doing so before FR (unless they're over total?) My feeling is that she should be welcomed back with open arms, without having to go through FR again.

My guess is that they're not allowed to hand out bids over the summer (if that was allowed, plenty of sororities would summer-rush and bid girls way before formal rush, so they could be at total or close before rush starts). She'll either have to go through formal rush or hope that ZTA doesn't make quota, in which they can COB her after recruitment.

If ZTA usually makes quota, she'd be best off going through formal rush. If ZTA doesn't usually make quota, it might be okay for her to just wait until COB.

radioZTA · #12 07-16-2003, 12:06 PM

I'd suggest talking with the Membership or Recruitment Advisor. She is supposed to be current on all the rules for ZTA and the school.

Good luck!

LaRue

SparkliiQTMTSU · #13 07-16-2003, 03:29 PM

Thanks for your support everyone! According to the greek life office it is too close to Formal Rush for them to give me a bid now. even though I was trying to do it since the beginning of JUNE!! grr anyways Im going to try to talk to the president of ZTA to see if there is anyway that I could do it w/o going thru formal rush. I would hate to do that knowing that my heart is in ZTA and wouldnt want them to think that I am looking anywhere else. Hopefully this works but if not I'll just have to go thru that whole grueling process. BLAH!! anyways i'll update on the situation later.

Nichole

DZHBrown · #14 07-16-2003, 03:44 PM

I believe May 10 was the last date sororities could offer open bids at MTSU. You might meet some new friends during formal recruitment but still go ZTA. If you know for a fact that you only want ZTA an ZTA will offer a bid, you could bypass the other parties, though I know that's not a great suggestion! You might make some friends in recruitment with the other sororities and it might just be a fun process to see what everyone is doing!

astroAPhi · #15 07-16-2003, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by SparkliiQTMTSU
Thanks for your support everyone! According to the greek life office it is too close to Formal Rush for them to give me a bid now. even though I was trying to do it since the beginning of JUNE!! grr anyways Im going to try to talk to the president of ZTA to see if there is anyway that I could do it w/o going thru formal rush. I would hate to do that knowing that my heart is in ZTA and wouldnt want them to think that I am looking anywhere else. Hopefully this works but if not I'll just have to go thru that whole grueling process. BLAH!! anyways i'll update on the situation later.

Nichole

Hmmm... just out of curiosity, could you drop all the other houses after the first day?