Informal vs. "formal" swaps
I must admit that one of the attractions for sorority life for me was thinking of all those hot fraternity boys, but unfortunately my house has only had 1 swap this semester. I'm not sure how many other houses here do. Anyways....supposedly we don't have a lot of our budget set aside for swaps. I have heard that you can have a swap at an off-campus venue, or an "informal" swap(like I guess if a few of the guys say, "We're having beer pong at the house on Thurs., bring your sisters"?). Also, for on-campus swaps here, everyone has to agree to not have alcohol (which kind of makes me wonder how the "informal" idea would work), and can't drink the day of the event, so it makes it hard to do those. We were supposed to swap with a frat last weekend at their house, but then they figured out the drinking thing and decided not to. Then basically our co-chair of fraternal relations told of all us that we could show up at the house for a cookout, but it wasn't an ADPi-sponsored event. She told me she is getting in trouble for doing this. I'm just worried, and if this is how it's going to be I wonder if my house can have swaps in the future. I would really like to do them and have the fraternities see what wonderful sisters we have. Even if we do swap, I think it will be with the two fraternities that the older girls like, which limits us. I know some of us younger girls would like to meet other fraternities...so basically is there any way for us to get around the rules and maybe arrange "informal" stuff?
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