Need some advice

[ZetaDancer]

thanks for the advice guys

[bgsugirlie]

Ok, I've had a similar situation in the past and I'm going to give you the advice I wish I had followed :

DON'T DO IT!!!


Guys come and go but friends are forever. I'm not trying to make judgments, but most of the fraternity guys at my school are undateable. They make awesome friends, give the best guy advice, but just aren't ready to take that big settling down with one girl step. Sisters share a kind of bond that is stronger than any guy...and it might cause drama in your sorority. I say find another guy...one that noone has dated...and stick with him.

I know it's easier said than done...but it's bound to be a bad situation. You need to tell your Big, apologize, and stay far away from that guy.

Good Luck.

[MSSTCY1]

I think that the damage has already been done ( and is continuing to be done). You can't exactly just go back and change things now. While, you could stop everything now, there is still a chance she will eventually find out. I think that you should tell her and ask her permission to continue seeing him. Basically, no matter what you already risk the chance of her finding out in the future and having that ruin your friendship. Tell her now, while you can be the first to tell her. If anything she will respect you for coming to her and asking her instead of her finding out from someone else.

[pinkyphimu]

it is probably better if she hears it from you. besides, if they dated 2 years ago....and she is in a serious relationship, she might not be as upset as you think!