Is this girl crazy?

UF_PikePC98 · #1 03-11-2003, 02:30 PM

Ok, there's this chick that I've been "chillin" with for a lil while, late at night sometimes.

I've had 4 intimate escapades with her during the month I've known her. Only 4. Thats kinda lacking in my department since I like this other girl.

Now, last night she stayed the night with me and I woke up this morning after she had left.

I found this.....

* Craig *

(I wrote this for you )

A cold breeze, a clear night
the soft touch of your fingertips
Gentley carresing my knee.

How unlikely I thought, to be here
next to you on this utterly peaceful evening.

Light gazes, softly spoken words
Intertwined into a thoughtful kiss,
on the chest, neck, nose, then a satisfying taste
upon my lips

the first page, in a chapter
of an open book
I wonder? How will this end?

Jessica

I'm wondering.....should I go ahead and cut her off? I think this girl might be getting attached to me. She tried to wake me up and read it to me before she left, I just acted like I was sleeping and started snoring. She quickly left, giving me a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye.

I popped up and read the poem.....it freaked me out.

Girls like that have strong emotions and can easily turn into that chick from fatal attraction.

What makes things even more awkward....she just "pops" over without even calling me. I told her before......"Don't do that, I could have another girl over and things wouldn't be good."

Her reply:
"Well, I wouldn't make a scene. I'd just leave."

What do some of you think about this situation?

UF

KillarneyRose · #2 03-11-2003, 02:34 PM

Crazy? No. But it sounds like she likes you a lot. If I were you, I would end everything as soon as possible so as not to hurt her any more than necessary.

FAB*SpiceySpice · #3 03-11-2003, 02:39 PM

I agree with K Rose....let her down gently, but do it soon b/c she's already way more attached than you are. Good luck!

UF_PikePC98 · #4 03-11-2003, 02:40 PM

Thank you Tracy.....

I needed some reassurance since my boys are telling me she might be pyscho.

amycat412 · #5 03-11-2003, 02:48 PM

I don't think she's psycho, Craig. She's just way more into you than you are her. And by writing that poem and giving it to you, she's made herself vulnerable, so try to be gentle with her when letting her down.

Plus ,

If she IS psycho, a gentle let down will induce far less psycho-ness than a blow off. Don't piss her off, just in case.

Amy

White_Chocolate · #6 03-11-2003, 03:01 PM

and this is why our chapter lives by this motto:

BOYS ARE STUPID!!!
THROW ROCKS AT THEM!!!

Zephyr · #7 03-11-2003, 04:33 PM

Not to be rude but are you being serious?

That sounds made up. Not very many women I know would be like, "Oh, you could be with another girl? well Iwouldn't make a scene!" I'd be like, "Then I am done with you! Enjoy the other girl!"

Clearly you have little respect for this girls emotions, if you truly believe she is into you more than you are in to her, you need to be up front about it. Tell her you don't want anything serious, and since she is clearly in 'another place' it's not going to work out if you date, as you don't want/can't give her what she needs.

This is good advice.

But seriously...this story is a bit odd to me.

damasa · #8 03-11-2003, 04:52 PM

wait, so your name really is Craig? I thought it wasn't?

Trippy......

Allie · #9 03-11-2003, 05:15 PM

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Originally posted by White_Chocolate
and this is why our chapter lives by this motto:

BOYS ARE STUPID!!!
THROW ROCKS AT THEM!!!

AMEN SISTER!

SilverTurtle · #10 03-11-2003, 09:01 PM

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Originally posted by White_Chocolate
and this is why our chapter lives by this motto:

BOYS ARE STUPID!!!
THROW ROCKS AT THEM!!!

OMG- when I was in school.. in like 1996... someone chalked this on one of the busier sidewalks .. actually it said "Boys are DUMB. Throw rocks at them". haha!

White_Chocolate · #11 03-11-2003, 09:34 PM

one of the TKEs found a huge poster that said 'boys are stupid. throw rocks at them.'

he gave it to us to hang in our office

smiley21 · #12 03-11-2003, 10:14 PM

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Originally posted by KDatUTC
what did you do to her? It musta been orgasmic.

lol. inflate the ego a bit why dont you?

FiReKraCkEr · #13 03-11-2003, 10:16 PM

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Originally posted by smiley21
lol. inflate the ego a bit why dont you?

Ahhhh, too late for that don't cha think?

smiley21 · #14 03-11-2003, 10:21 PM

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Originally posted by KDatUTC
Ahhhh, too late for that don't cha think?

gotta admit, he has some endearing qualities

FiReKraCkEr · #15 03-11-2003, 10:29 PM

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Originally posted by smiley21
gotta admit, he has some endearing qualities

Like what? Me? Admit to that? How much are you gonna pay me? jk

Oh, God. Craig (?) is gonna get me.....please call me a Korean chick again, I don't hear it often enough...lol