Need some feedback
I have a friend of mine that's in the only other sorority on campus and even though we aren't "REAL" sisters, we're still really close and the other day she told me that she thinks she's developing feelings for her big bro. Now, none of us are allowed to have offical big bro's, but we've kind of adopted unofficial ones. We have a really small greek system and so we all hang out all the time...it was bound to happen sooner or later. She asked me if I thought it was alright for her to persue it, because she thinks he might be interested in her as well. I told her I didn't think it would be a problem, but just to realize and take account that if they broke up and things were sour, she'd lose her big bro... :-/ Has this ever happened to anyone or had it happen to a brother/sister of theirs?? How have you guys handled it?????
Did I give her the wrong advice by telling her it was alright?
Thanks guys!
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