what's a girl to do now?

[bluethunder]

soRHOrs, sisterfriends, and others who can relate:
to put it mildly, my heart has been broken FOR REAL and i need some good old fashioned "get on with your life" advice--
i drove 5 hours to my long distance love this weekend to celebrate our anniversary; he greeted my with roses and other gifts, and he even had an artist sketch a poster of his favorite photo of me as a keepsake to commemorate our special day. we had a wonderful day-- went to lunch, strolled around parks, drove on the South Beach, and went to the movies. then he said, "we need to talk about us" and after that, he broke it off because he said long distance was too much. needless to say, after 3 long years of the ups and the downs, my heart aches. of course, i got the "it's me, not you"- "you're a wonderful woman and you helped me grow and we've shared so much"-speech. it didn't help. so here i am, feeling numb, knowing that what GOD ordains, will be. i've been praying about it, but is there any advice for how i can fill my time without thinking about this? (y'all know a soror is HURTING in florida!)