I am in a situation where I am living with one of my sorority sisters and we were also roommates in college. I've gotten to the point where I dread being around her because she's changed a lot and we just have very different personalities. I don't want to be childish and trash-talk her so I won't go into details, but basically she just is very hard for me to live with. Our lease is not up until June and we are living 25 miles from where I work, which is another big reason I want to move out. 25 miles may seem like no big deal to some, but in the suburbs of DC it is a big deal. So my boyfriend's sister lives in a townhouse that's about 6 miles from where I work, and she and her roommates are looking for a roommate now, and she offered it to me. I really love the house and the location and I want to move there more than anything. Problem is I don't know how to tell my roommate. Technically I can't move out if she isn't okay with it because I am legally bound to the terms of the lease, and I feel bad forcing her to find another roommate. I have my differences with her, but I'm not the kind of person who will just screw someone over. But on the other hand, I feel like if I don't get out of there I am going to snap. I have avoided confrontation with her but I don't know how much longer I can continue to do that. I have a feeling that we will end up hating each other if we continue to live together. So, does anyone have any ideas on how to approach the subject? Sorry about the long explanation
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