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Must Exboyfriends suck?
I just need to vent, and need a little help from the boys
(a little background, me and this guy, we'll call him "Jack", dated for 2 years in college. it was a really bad break up. i have been out of school for 2 years, and he out for one. I am currently engaged to the love of my life, and Jack apparently wants to open the lines of communication, and we have talked a few times over email and im and he called me once to congratulate me on my engagement.)
so last night i was emailing friends directions to my engagement party, and jack signs onto im. the first thing he says to me is "did i ruin your life?" and i am like "what? no you didn't, i am with the person i was ment to be with and am the happiest i have ever been. one person can not single handedly ruin your life from a college relationship". and he told me that he went up to our college's graduation where he ran into his exgirlfriend, the one after me, who is still in college (he is in graduate school, about 1500 miles away from her) and she told him how he completly ruined her life and all this stuff. and he also tells me about this other relationship that he just ended with another girl, and she freaked out and told him he ruined her life. whatever, they dated for 3 weeks..... so he asks me what he does wrong in relationships.
well i, the idiot i am, tried to give him some sugarcoated advice- telling him that with me, the breakup was very sudden, out of the blue, and that we never talked about it. he just decided that it was over one day. and after i tell him this he totally freaks out on me and gets all defensive. i then, just told him that i had to go and hoped he had a good summer and signed off.
so what do you think his deal is?
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