Hey everyone! Well, I am having this problem with one of my best friends that is going to be going to college with me. We have known each other for a long time and I love her to death, but lately she has been saying things, "We are going to join the same sorority? Right?!" And I don't really know what to say to her. Of course I would love to join the same sorority as her, but I don't want to compromise my feelings about a specific house because of her or anyone else. I want to be totally independent when I make my choice, because after all these will be my sisters-not anyone else's. I am really stuck between a rock and a hard place because I don't want to lose her friendship and whenever I tell her that we might not get in the same one she gets really really pissed off, but I also want to make my own choice and not have anyone pressuring me! She also thinks that if we don't get into the same house we will never hang out anymore, which I know is not true. She is also very stubborn so when I tell her that is not true she gets even madder. It is just totally driving me crazy!! Have any of you been in this situation and even if you haven't do you have any words of advice?
Thank you!
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