Stupid boy

[nucutiepie]

I am currently dating my best friend. I am his first girlfriend ever and so I try to be understanding that he may not understand how to relate to/treat a girlfriend. However, me and some of my sisters were chilling in my room, making nice drinks and hanging out and I complained how he made me feel undervalued and not appreciated and my girls thought I was crazy. He stopped by for a few minutes and was so rude, uncaring, etc that my friend demanded he kiss me before he leave the room (he wouldnt even do that) and as soon as he left all four girls simultaneously told me that I shouldnt put up with that, that he treats me terribly, etc.

He then does these passive agressive things. He has a friend here this weekend AND its NCAA tournament so he basically wont spend time with me. He however promised that I could come to lunch tomorrow, yet he wont let us talk this over (we had an angry conversation later tonight) before lunch, which means I wont want to go because I have no desire to pretend that I am happy and OK when I am really mad at him. Rather than saying he doesnt want me to come to lunch, he just creates a situation where I can't really go to lunch (b/c I don't want to ruin his friends lunch by being a little bitch the whole time!)

What am I supposed to do? Am I supposed to chalk it up to inexperience? Or is there more going on here?