dntke, you have a hook to get Alums back after 50 Years!
We try to have Brothers there Fri. Night for informal gathering of out for the evening!
Sat. Morning meet ing at the house with a Brunch to nock the edge off of hunger! We have an Associate Member who Is Initiated to bring the Blood Back after watching it! Then we go to the 3-11 which is a local piub that most of us hung out out and find out what is going on with our lives. That night we have a Banquet.
You can only put so much events in a short period of time! Then Sun. We have House Corp. meeting.
Remember, that the Alums come together to see what the Other Brothers are doing with themselves.
You can do other things at a later date. Trying to put a golf outing or anything else that take up to much time draws away from what the idea is of gathering!
Hope this helps!