Big / Little Adoption

[lmbird0]

Hello All,
I'm exploring the idea of bring up the idea to my chapter to allow me to be adopted by another big. There are many reasons why I am suggesting this.

When I join my organization my big was given to me, the only time we hung out was right after he was given to me and one other time. He was never there as a mentor, he was never there if I needed him. I would try to text or call time and I would never get an answer, while I asked other brothers to text him and he would respond right away, and still never answer me. He always seemed to avoid me. In my organization it is custom to get matching letters from the big to the little. My big never gave me letters, he told me if I wanted them I would have to pay for them myself.(not because he didnt have money, he just didnt wanna have them), he has not graduated and is no longer in my chapter. Since then another brother has said he would adopt me into his tree. My big's big was never there for him and his big was never there for him. So my branch of my tree is lets just say worthless... So im wanting to get adopted by another brother so my littles actually have a tree to look up to. Has this ever happened in your organization? If so how has it happened?

Thanks.