Formal Favor Issues-
Sapphire Ball Issues!
Hi Guys. So as most of you probably know our Sapphire Ball for Phi Sigma Sigma was yesterday. Now...our social chair- let's call her...Julie...wanted to get our Crest on the Champagne glasses and Beer Mugs- Well. That would have looked great, however, our President and Vice President, let's call them, respectivly, Patty and Anne...decided that it wouldn't be a good idea because they didn't want people drinking from glasses that had our crest on them....Now, backstory a little here, but our chapter has an incredibly strict alcohol policy- and a few of the actives, including Patty and Anne, are those who OTHER actives, like, Julie, say get incredibly anal about anything alcohol related...and new members, like myself, were warned against even TALKING about it infront of Patty and Anne...and a couple others...warned against it by girls like Julie. So. Patty and Anne decided to tell Julie NOT to order those glasses.
Julie ordered them anyways, saying that Patty and Anne were being ridiculous and anal about the whole glass issue...and how most people only used the glasses for decoration and not to drink from.
So, Patty and ANne refused to let Julie give out the glasses yesterday-and now Julie and a couple of HER friends wont even speak to Patty or Anne or some of their friends.
We're supposed to vote on it today in Chapter-
Do you guys have any ideas for any way for us to get over this?
Ways of comprimise?
What other ideas do you have about bring the sisters more together instead of constantly in their little cliques?
It's hard for me because I love everyone in BOTH groups!
Love,
Jessica
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