REGRETS

DiSappoinTed · #1 05-28-2009, 06:20 PM

People are hard on the internet...

DiSappoinTed · #2 05-28-2009, 06:25 PM

and I know there are other posts on this but i wanted to direct this to my sorors in particular...

DrPhil · #3 05-28-2009, 06:29 PM

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=74723

We don't want to read about this. Take it to the Lord in prayer or talk to some real life Sorors about it.

DiSappoinTed · #4 05-28-2009, 06:34 PM

well why did you respond? Thanks

DrPhil · #5 05-28-2009, 06:36 PM

Okay smartie.....

CrimsonTide4 · #6 05-28-2009, 06:40 PM

As Dr. Phil said, everything that happens to you in real life does not need to be posted on GC. You need to get an inner circle of Deltas to affiliate with and talk to them about how to handle this.

Every Delta will not be your bestest and that includes your line sisters. Be sisterly towards others, learn from your Delta elders, both in real years and Delta years, and keep the rest moving.

I hope part of your Delta learning was that Delta business should be kept in house.

ladygreek · #7 05-28-2009, 07:11 PM

Uh, Delta is NOT a business first and foremost. It is first and foremost a sisterhood that takes care of business. If you don't understand that, maybe there are other things you don't understand that are causing your issues.

DiSappoinTed · #8 05-28-2009, 07:21 PM

That was my point..I THOUGHT that too but sisterhood is not treating me differently because I went alumnae

DrPhil · #9 05-28-2009, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DiSappoinTed

That was my point..I THOUGHT that too but sisterhood is not treating me differently because I went alumnae

Good luck with figuring it out.

Your username is horrible. DST and disappointed in the same word for the sisterhood that you claim to love? Seriously?

ree-Xi · #10 05-28-2009, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DiSappoinTed

That was my point..I THOUGHT that too but sisterhood is not treating me differently because I went alumnae

Pardon for the lane crashing, but perhaps you are waiting for sisterhood to come to you. Sisterhood is a two-way street.

ladygreek · #11 05-29-2009, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by DiSappoinTed

That was my point..I THOUGHT that too but sisterhood is not treating me differently because I went alumnae

Six degrees of separation alert! Be careful what you post, you never know who is on here from your chapter.

ladygreek · #12 05-28-2009, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil

Okay smartie.....

LOL

33girl · #13 05-28-2009, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by DiSappoinTed

Also, being the youngest on my line (early 20's) i just do not have much in common with them.

Wow, this reeks of "I'm still young and hot, I have nothing in common with these old bags." You so got me at the wrong time for that kind of comment, so all I can say is stop being such a closed-minded dingaling.

NiaX · #14 05-29-2009, 12:07 PM

dang i wish i had logged on yesterday to see what was posted originally. And who are you that you didn't post in the intro thread? "people are hard on the net"...get outta here with that

DrPhil · #15 05-29-2009, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by NiaX

dang i wish i had logged on yesterday to see what was posted originally. And who are you that you didn't post in the intro thread? "people are hard on the net"...get outta here with that

Bear with me as I type a long post in an attempt to replicate:

Hi OOOOOO-OOOOP Sorors!!! I have always LOVED DST. But I couldn't join undergrad because the chapter was suspended. It did not reactivate by the time I graduated. I didn't want to go alumnae chapter like people advised--but lo and behold I had to. Well, I LOVE Delta but I don't feel the closeness that I expected. I am young (in my 20s) and I don't feel a bond with my LSs. I also catch flack for being alumnae. My process wasn't inadequate--we did more than study and take tests!!! I know that Delta is a BUSINESS first but I want some sisterhood...I'm an idiot and none of the real life Sorors like talking to me so I'm coming to YOU ALL for advice because obviously YOU ALL would know something that I didn't learn during MY process. I'm an idiot. I'm an idiot. Please advise me on how to bond with my LSs and get the sisterhood. It's not my fault I'm alumnae chapter. Thanks!!!