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10-08-2004, 01:07 PM
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Non-Sexual Crushes
Has anyone ever had a crush on someone that wasn't sexual in nature?
At my new job, I have a serious crush on this married guy. There is no sexual attraction involved, but I just love spending time talking with him. I make sure I get the chair next to him in meetings, I always make sure I have a funny thing to say to him. I tease him all the time.
I swear that it's not sexual. I just get butterflies when I see him because he's so...I don't know. He's my height (5'11"), with goofy nerd boy hair (he put tiger stipe type highlights all over his head!!), WAY too into movies (he peppers his conversations with movie quotes...GEEK!!), and has a deep southern twang....BUT I JUST ADORE HIM!
Can anyone relate??
Also, what about same sex crushes? I've had these...Usually they pop up during a self-evaluation phase when I'm trying to improve who I am and find this person's personality/life fascinating...
(FYI: I would never move in on a married man. Marriage is so sacred to me and I would never want someone to do that to my husband. He's off limits...PERIOD! No if, ands, or buts about it. No spin could ever make that ok!)
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10-08-2004, 01:41 PM
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You guys will be banging in the copy room in 2 months.
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10-08-2004, 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by Lil' Hannah
You guys will be banging in the copy room in 2 months.
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Truer words were never spoken.
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10-08-2004, 02:13 PM
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Re: Non-Sexual Crushes
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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
I swear that it's not sexual. I just get butterflies when I see him because he's so...I don't know.....BUT I JUST ADORE HIM!
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are you trying to convince me, or are you trying to convince you?
-RC
--drop pants, close blinds, don't yell too loud
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10-08-2004, 02:28 PM
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Ya know, I KNEW people would doubt my sincerity 
I am completely ok with you Doubting Thomases...But I really am not attracted to him that way...This comes back to the whole "Can men and women TRULY be friends?" controversy!!!
Besides, it's a ONE-SIDED crush...He doesn't even know I feel this way....Can't bang someone who's not into you, right? 
Last edited by sigmagrrl; 10-08-2004 at 02:33 PM.
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10-08-2004, 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
Can't bang someone who's not into you, right?
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Rudey's mom does it all the time.
Oh I went there.
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10-08-2004, 03:07 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Lil' Hannah
Rudey's mom does it all the time.
Oh I went there.
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Still angry because I said you turned me gay for your dad?
-Rudey
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10-08-2004, 03:19 PM
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Still angry because I said you turned me gay for your dad?
-Rudey
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I'm just angry that you make me call you Mama Rudith.
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10-08-2004, 03:46 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Lil' Hannah
I'm just angry that you make me call you Mama Rudith.
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Quote:
Originally posted by Rudey
Still angry because I said you turned me gay for your dad?
-Rudey
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I have two balls, one for each of your mouths - no crumpets for tea time though, just dip them in your mowf
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10-08-2004, 03:46 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Lil' Hannah
I'm just angry that you make me call you Mama Rudith.
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It was Aunt Rudith and it was because I was making you pancakes you ungrateful bastard!
-Rudey
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10-08-2004, 04:18 PM
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I have two balls, one for each of your mouths - no crumpets for tea time though, just dip them in your mowf
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You have one ball and it looks like a giant pomegranate.
-Rudey
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10-08-2004, 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by Rudey
You have one ball and it looks like a giant pomegranate.
-Rudey
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and the botox injections to my scrotum make it smooth like a bocce ball . . . it's quite a sight
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10-10-2004, 03:44 AM
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i am in compelte asshole mode right now....
how the fuck are you gonna have a crush on soemoen you dotn wannna do?
you liar.
bye bye
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10-10-2004, 03:51 AM
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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
i am in compelte asshole mode right now....
how the fuck are you gonna have a crush on soemoen you dotn wannna do?
you liar.
bye bye
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Dude, why the asshole?
NOT COOL.
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10-10-2004, 11:03 AM
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yeah, I have a ton of crushes that aren't sexual. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and never cheated on him, but I still get lonely and it's like...oh that guy is cute...that one is nice...blah. And then I remind myself that I have the best man ever.
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