Lost Badge

South32 · #1 02-02-2011, 12:34 AM

I was just initiated a few months ago, and my badge has gone missing

I brought it home with me, and somehow in the mess of things (its been very stressful in my household back home) my badge got lost. Is this something that a sorority can replace? If so, what is the general cost?

I'm ashamed and embarrassed

Psi U MC Vito · #2 02-02-2011, 12:37 AM

Yes and you need to ask somebody in the sorority the other question.

South32 · #3 02-02-2011, 12:43 AM

I was just hoping for a range in price. Wanted to know if they were around $50 or in the hundreds? Its one of the less ornate badges

U Go Glen Coco! · #4 02-02-2011, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by South32

I was just initiated a few months ago, and my badge has gone missing

I brought it home with me, and somehow in the mess of things (its been very stressful in my household back home) my badge got lost. Is this something that a sorority can replace? If so, what is the general cost?

I'm ashamed and embarrassed

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Originally Posted by South32

I was just hoping for a range in price. Wanted to know if they were around $50 or in the hundreds? Its one of the less ornate badges

Honey, you're asking the wrong crowd.

South32 · #5 02-02-2011, 01:01 AM

Sorry. I did PM a member of my sorority. I'm just new to everything, and like I said, I'm really upset about it all. I was in tears earlier

excelblue · #6 02-02-2011, 01:48 AM

You are actually pinging people online?!

No - give someone in your sorority (probably Secretary, Membership Chair, Internal, etc.) a call and let them know what happened so you can get your badge replaced ASAP. Continue searching for it in the mean time.

KKGCaroline · #7 02-02-2011, 05:03 AM

Oh honey, i know exactly how you feel, I though i had lost my key recently.

Have you checked all your clothes, to make sure its not attached to anything (thats where mine was - doh), do you remember actually packing it to bring it home, could it still be at school?

DubaiSis · #8 02-02-2011, 05:22 AM

It happens. Check your sorority website. There will possibly be a link to the vendor there and you should be able to get an idea. The good news is for most of the sororities (I think) there is a range from really cheap - gold plated - to really expensive. My guess is you can get the cheapest one for $50-75, but don't quote me on that.

Get yourself the cheapy to get by for now and maybe think about splurging later on when you're a little more settled. Your chapter may also have one you can borrow to get you by for awhile. You also may be able to buy one from one of the auction websites (I think they're another one we don't name by name on GC). However, I don't know that they'd be cheaper than the cheapy brand new one.

Take a deep breath, ask your membership chair what to do, and they'll take care of you.

bevinpiphi · #9 02-02-2011, 11:13 PM

I second checking all clothes. I constantly leave mine pinned to my last piece of formal wear.

South32 · #10 02-03-2011, 12:07 AM

The last time I wore it was a dress, and its not on there. I remember putting it in its little case, and then into a bag. I found the bag, but no badge

DDDlady · #11 02-03-2011, 12:36 AM

You might check here. Some of the groups list prices, but most of the time you will need to go through your HQ to reorder. Good luck.

http://www.hjgreek.com/

thetalady · #12 02-03-2011, 01:09 AM

I know you are upset, but sweetie, this happens all the time. You aren't the first to lose your badge. Don't worry! It might not be quite as special to you as your original badge, but it can be replaced. Accidents happen, it is not the end of the world

AOII Angel · #13 02-03-2011, 10:51 AM

When you do get your new badge, I recommend making a deliberate habit of never taking off your badge until you get home. Go directly to your dresser and put it in your jewelry box. After a few times, this habit becomes permanent. It is so easy to lose a badge and lots of people do it, so don't beat yourself up about it. I was lucky to live in our sorority dorm, one door down from our chapter room, so I could head straight for my room to put up my badge when ritual was over. I still do this 18 years later when I come home from work after wearing my badge. I have 12 of them and keep them all in the same place. Your new badge will come in much faster than your original one did, too (if you aren't in one of the groups that get them at initiation.) When they aren't ordered in bulk, they deliver much faster. Enjoy your new badge, and may you have it for many, many years!

CutiePie2000 · #14 02-04-2011, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel

When you do get your new badge, I recommend making a deliberate habit of never taking off your badge until you get home.

Oy, I have my badge pinned on, WITH BUBBLE GUARD, and it still fell off somehow. I think putting on my seat belt in the car, maybe it got jarred or something. But it was gone forever and never could find it again!

I have now bought a replacement but still...what a waste of a beautiful badge!

AOII Angel · #15 02-04-2011, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by CutiePie2000

Oy, I have my badge pinned on, WITH BUBBLE GUARD, and it still fell off somehow. I think putting on my seat belt in the car, maybe it got jarred or something. But it was gone forever and never could find it again!

I have now bought a replacement but still...what a waste of a beautiful badge!

It's a shame when those things happen, and those are the flukes you can't prevent. But you can prevent losing your badge box out of the bottom of a bag.