Confessions...

[lil_sunshine]

I'm in the process of looking for a salaried job. Commission based income does not work for me. As a TRUUUUUE Cancerian, I NEEDS SOME CONSISTENCY (weekly or bi-weekly paychecks). I been doing this commission thing for months now and I haven't closed one loan yet for one reason or another. It's time to make a change.

[SummerChild]

Ok, Ghost_wolf, you are being published, are a grad student and just got a 4.0 w/out much effort. I already have a man so I will ask the obvious question - are you looking? LOL. I'm sure we could find someone for you.


SC

Originally posted by GHOST_WOLF
My confession...

This semester has not been very productive for me...

I must of been really feeling myself. After I heard that I was getting published after I heard I won Outstanding Grad paper at the LERA conference I just completely slacked. I would come to class late and leave early! I still managed a 4.0 for this semester but I know that I didn't put forth my best effort.

I'm being praised for my less than lethargic effort.

[ShamikaT]

Originally posted by GHOST_WOLF
My confession...

This semester has not been very productive for me...

I must of been really feeling myself. After I heard that I was getting published after I heard I won Outstanding Grad paper at the LERA conference I just completely slacked. I would come to class late and leave early! I still managed a 4.0 for this semester but I know that I didn't put forth my best effort.

I'm being praised for my less than lethargic effort.

Annnnnnnd?

This ain't no confession material.

Ain't nothing wrong with being lazy, especially if you don't get caught.

[lil_sunshine]

A female that considers me to be her best friend (the feeling is NOT mutual on my part b/c she has a big mouth and likes to talk a lot of junk about people) gave me a harsh talk this past weekend about me being almost 30 years old and not having my $h!t together. She says that it's not cute to be broke and said that she doesn't fcuk with bum b!tches. In essence, I think she was trying to call me a bum b!tch, but I know I'm not one. She told me that she loves me, but doesn't like me b/c I haven't progressed fast enough in her eyes. I had helped her create her list of short term goals that she wanted to reach in the next year or so. She says that I'm more likely to talk the talk, but not walk the walk (basically saying that I'm a liar ). She said that she can't wait until I get my own apartment so she can come over to my house on the weekends, get drunk and pass out on my couch. Wow, what a "friend".......

Frankly, I don't give a frog's fat azz WTH she thinks, b/c at the end of the day, she's not gonna help me look for a salaried job, pay for my carfare to get back and forth, look for an apartment to live in or pay any of my bills. So she can kiss my gorillatush and K.I.M. (that's her name BTW). She said that after all this, she didn't care if we spoke ever again or not, she just had to say that. Just 15 minutes ago, she rolled up in my job and asked me to keep an eye on her friend's daughter in the salon a few doors down while they go shopping for shoes at the mall. Go figure.....

[OhioCentaur]

Originally posted by lil_sunshine
A female that considers me to be her best friend (the feeling is NOT mutual on my part b/c she has a big mouth and likes to talk a lot of junk about people) gave me a harsh talk this past weekend about me being almost 30 years old and not having my $h!t together. She says that it's not cute to be broke and said that she doesn't fcuk with bum b!tches. In essence, I think she was trying to call me a bum b!tch, but I know I'm not one. She told me that she loves me, but doesn't like me b/c I haven't progressed fast enough in her eyes. I had helped her create her list of short term goals that she wanted to reach in the next year or so. She says that I'm more likely to talk the talk, but not walk the walk (basically saying that I'm a liar ). She said that she can't wait until I get my own apartment so she can come over to my house on the weekends, get drunk and pass out on my couch. Wow, what a "friend".......

Frankly, I don't give a frog's fat azz WTH she thinks, b/c at the end of the day, she's not gonna help me look for a salaried job, pay for my carfare to get back and forth, look for an apartment to live in or pay any of my bills. So she can kiss my gorillatush and K.I.M. (that's her name BTW). She said that after all this, she didn't care if we spoke ever again or not, she just had to say that. Just 15 minutes ago, she rolled up in my job and asked me to keep an eye on her friend's daughter in the salon a few doors down while they go shopping for shoes at the mall. Go figure.....

You betta smack that broad!!!!!

[black_princess]

Originally Posted by OhioCentaur

You betta smack that broad!!!!!

Just know that you officially killed me with that 1

[lil_sunshine]

Originally Posted by OhioCentaur

You betta smack that broad!!!!!

I should, shouldn't I? After all, I enjoy wanting to give pimp stick beatings to my relatives. She shouldn't be an exception.

[MsFoxyLoxy77]

Originally Posted by jitterbug13

Confession #1: As many of ya'll may know, I don't like my job. AT ALL. But now I feel physcially sick every time I go there or even think about it. I have waisted over a year of my life trying to make this work and I can't see myself waiting for the next 3-5 years. And I don't get paid much (between $60-350 a week depending on how busy it is and lately, I've been working once a week). My dad talked me into leaving the job I was at (which I was getting ready to leave anyway) to do this one and now I realized it was for political reasons. I'm in the third generation in doing this job but the first female and first to do this particular job. Everyone says they're proud of me but I'm not proud of myself. I'm even ashamed to tell people what I do. Which leads up to...

Confession #2: I don't know what to do with the rest of my life. In college, I thought I was postive I was going to be a newspaper reporter. But back then, I had doubts, but small ones. Then I started working as a reporter and it eventually became the first job from Hell. The editors were very nasty and it was so bad that I cried just about ever night and became physically and emotionally tired. Becasue of this, I don't know if I want to go back into it. I started taking Master's classes in public relations but there are days I have doubts about that. I have thought of being a libarian, travel agent, event planner or owning my own para shop. I know I need to sit down to figure out what I need to do.

Confession #3: I like my Kappafriend, but my interest has been waining the last few weeks. We met in college several years ago and we had fun. He started going with a girl who used to live down the hall from me and I think she broke his heart (he rarely talks about it). We got together twice in the last few months but he's getting ready to move to Atlanta this weekend. It's hard getting in touch with him. I'll call and he's doesn't call back. He says he's busy but sometimes I have to wonder about that. I know there are other females intersted in him but he said that I was the only one he was interested in. A part of me tells me to move on but another wants me to see what will happen next. With him I feel like a doll on a shelf: he picks me up when he needs me. But there maybe one day he'll look for me and I'll be gone.

Sorry this is so long!

Are you living my parallel life sistergreek?
1. I'm just using the job I'm at now to pay and save for when I leave and forget about the job before that one.
2. I just got a great GRE score but I'm not sure what to do with the rest of my life.
3. I've been a business major since highschool but when I entered sales I ran into some serious ethical conflicts and will not be pursuing an MBA.
4. As for your Confession #3 I'll just keep that to myself for now.

[jitterbug13]

^^^^That was me a few months ago.

Confession #1 has been solved: I started a new job as a library assistant three weeks ago and have been really enjoying it. I was so happy leaving my old job and sometimes I realize that I am no longer there and that I am started to live the life that I want for myself. Even though I had to move and pizz off my parents in the process, I'm glad I did it.

Confession #2: I am begining to realize that I do want to become a librarian and will soon start getting ready to take the GRE so I can enroll in graduate school. And in most cases, don't have to leave work to do it. They will even help me pay for school.

Confession #3: Kappafriend and I have been talking more and trying to support other. His father died last month and his aunt a little more than a week ago. He's been in his hometown since his dad passed and we been talking a few times a week. I hope this doesn't change when he moves back.

[Dionysus]

TTT-I like this thread.

I'm kind of cheap. For halloween, instead of buying a costume like everyone else, I grabbed a name tag and wrote my name, and came as myself.

I flunked my driver's exam twice. That d*mn parallel parking is what held me back.

I don't wash my hands after taking a 3 a.m. pee. I'm going back to bed, why does it matter?

[raggann03]

I don't post much but I'll go with this...

I became engaged earlier this year, several months later we came to a mutual decison that we need a real break from each other. Fast forward a couple of months, I find out that the he had been seeing this other chick for a couple of months and been sleeping with several others. I find this out through an anonymous email from who else...the girl he is sleeping with, but she disguises herself be claiming to be a member of my sorority
it gets ugly but I remain the calm collected lady that I am.
My confession...I want to smack that b****!!!, slash some tires and just get all out ghetto on their a**!!

whew! I feel better already

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by raggann03

I don't post much but I'll go with this...

I became engaged earlier this year, several months later we came to a mutual decison that we need a real break from each other. Fast forward a couple of months, I find out that the he had been seeing this other chick for a couple of months and been sleeping with several others. I find this out through an anonymous email from who else...the girl he is sleeping with, but she disguises herself be claiming to be a member of my sorority
it gets ugly but I remain the calm collected lady that I am.
My confession...I want to smack that b****!!!, slash some tires and just get all out ghetto on their a**!!

whew! I feel better already

My confession would be I'd do it to my car and then say homegirl did it and include her biatch assed email with it to Homeland Security...

[pinkies up]

One time, when I was young and dumb, I caught my then boyfriend at some chick's house. I knocked on the door and asked the girl to tell him to come to the door. His scared @$$ never came, so I took a crowbar from the trunk of my car and went to work on his precious Acura legend. Of course I denied it to the end. I even had "witnesses" that said I was with them. Anyway, he was so mad in court, he cussed me out and that made my defense that I was terrified of him and that he had been threatening me that much sweeter. He was sentenced to anger management and was told that if I ever reported to the police that he was harassing me, he would be in jail. Ahhhh, revenge is so sweet.

[Dionysus]

Originally Posted by pinkies up

One time, when I was young and dumb, I caught my then boyfriend at some chick's house. I knocked on the door and asked the girl to tell him to come to the door. His scared @$$ never came, so I took a crowbar from the trunk of my car and went to work on his precious Acura legend. Of course I denied it to the end. I even had "witnesses" that said I was with them. Anyway, he was so mad in court, he cussed me out and that made my defense that I was terrified of him and that he had been threatening me that much sweeter. He was sentenced to anger management and was told that if I ever reported to the police that he was harassing me, he would be in jail. Ahhhh, revenge is so sweet.

LIKE WOAH!

[pinkies up]

I know...I'm ashamed of it now, but back in the day, I was 'bout it!!!