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Old 04-19-2006, 09:02 PM
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^^^^Hahahahahaha. I only needed a reason...

*Looks around the room--decides the coast is clear and then......*

So, it all began with sophomore year and here we are, about to graduate, and you still don't effin' get it.

Jealousy like that can kill you. Seriously. I've never been one to ..."a snake in the grass, once hidden, is still a snake in the grass." Mama's always right.

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Soror Enigma...

To whom the gods wish to destroy, they must first make them angry...

Why you lettin' a fool get to you lak dat dere? Is she that relevant or that important, really?

And no, you ain't gotta be friends with homegirl, nor does she havta be your "special project"... But since you ain't getting paid for psychotherapy sessions, why give them? So what if homegirl is delusional and hallucinates? Is she really stopping you from graduation? Ending your real friendships? And I know your man ain't that weak--so why let this fool get to you lak dat dere?

No problem venting and that's okay... Sometimes anger gets pent up and builds on us, like lava floes... And it cannot be quelled unless it comes out violently or affects us psychologically... I know, been there, done that, got a T-shirt...

So, you gotta just know some folks have mental problems. Here is just one of them.

10 years from now, where do you think they will be?

If you laugh, then, you are already over the fool...
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Old 04-19-2006, 09:11 PM
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I hear you, Soror Monet, I hear you. And I thank you. Seriously.

It's like I KNOW but...somethings are better left alone. I'm not one to buddy up with someone who is wack to me more than once, but when it's a close circle of friends...things get complicated.

10 years from now--or even 10 days from today, I will be over it. She, though, will have to deal with the reality of her wackness forever as it continues to haunt her...this I already know.

Also--about the venting thing---I don't vent just to vent, usually, and that's something I should do more of. Why I don't vent? My philosophy is and always has been "So what am I going to DO?" Basically, a whole lotta talk doesn't get the situation taken care of. Dealing with the situation does. With some folks---it just aint that easy. One would think that it would be, but it's not, in real life...

I'm not making excuses; I'm just gone let this one ALONE and wait until May 13th...

enigma_AKA
PS--No, my 'man' would never be that weak. He would know better...


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Soror Enigma...

To whom the gods wish to destroy, they must first make them angry...

Why you lettin' a fool get to you lak dat dere? Is she that relevant or that important, really?

And no, you ain't gotta be friends with homegirl, nor does she havta be your "special project"... But since you ain't getting paid for psychotherapy sessions, why give them? So what if homegirl is delusional and hallucinates? Is she really stopping you from graduation? Ending your real friendships? And I know your man ain't that weak--so why let this fool get to you lak dat dere?

No problem venting and that's okay... Sometimes anger gets pent up and builds on us, like lava floes... And it cannot be quelled unless it comes out violently or affects us psychologically... I know, been there, done that, got a T-shirt...

So, you gotta just know some folks have mental problems. Here is just one of them.

10 years from now, where do you think they will be?

If you laugh, then, you are already over the fool...
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Old 04-20-2006, 03:32 AM
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Sweetheart, t'ain't nothin' wrong with venting. If you bottle it up inside you, it will kill you... It is actually taking action on the venting--like if you felt like killing someone, then you actually do it kinna thing--that is the problem. But if you don't vent or at least let off some steam to get it all out into the open, then whatever is causing you the trauma has triumphed...

The flip side of the coin is don't let some dysfunctional unmedicated delusional schizophrenic psychotic neurotic mental patient get to you to the point that you actually will take your time to utter your breath to set him or her correct...

Right now, I am dealing with someone like that... And I have to use all my Spiritual powers to make sure that I smile, count to 10, try to understand from the delusional perspective and move on--according to WebMD... Because ultimately, who will be the person driven most insane??? Not the unmedicated person...

You've all you've got and this life ain't a dress rehearsal--so take care of yourself... Always...

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I hear you, Soror Monet, I hear you. And I thank you. Seriously.

It's like I KNOW but...somethings are better left alone. I'm not one to buddy up with someone who is wack to me more than once, but when it's a close circle of friends...things get complicated.

10 years from now--or even 10 days from today, I will be over it. She, though, will have to deal with the reality of her wackness forever as it continues to haunt her...this I already know.

Also--about the venting thing---I don't vent just to vent, usually, and that's something I should do more of. Why I don't vent? My philosophy is and always has been "So what am I going to DO?" Basically, a whole lotta talk doesn't get the situation taken care of. Dealing with the situation does. With some folks---it just aint that easy. One would think that it would be, but it's not, in real life...

I'm not making excuses; I'm just gone let this one ALONE and wait until May 13th...

enigma_AKA
PS--No, my 'man' would never be that weak. He would know better...
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Old 04-20-2006, 10:40 AM
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Re: Re: UPDATE

LOL. I don't do things to specifically piss them off, but i'm gonna do what's best for me and my honey. At the end of the day I come home and turn the key to my door, no one else's. I pay my bills without help from any of them. And I will get married without financial or emotional help from any of them. Who ever get vex, will have to stay that way. Tough nuggies.

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I tole you 'bout how some folks just will ack a fool... They just ack a fool...

But be 'bout it, 'bout it and do yo thang gwirl... Destination, far, far away...

Or, you can skrait piss 'em off and go waaay out and do the stuh you KNOW will piss them off just to see how pissed off they can get...

Naw, I don't recommend that... But, in my ole age, I'd be crazy enuf to do it...
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Old 04-20-2006, 10:42 AM
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BTW

My sister-in-law to be is AKA, and she's actually been very supportive with this engagement. I find it funny (in a good way) that I'm also getting support in an AKA forum. However she says she not coming to a crimson and creme wedding. I told her "Girl I'mma miss you being there". Kidding. We are going with Burnt Orange, I was just messing with her. Thanks ladies for all the support, I appreciate it.
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Old 05-07-2006, 06:18 PM
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Confession #1: I no longer have a crush on my work friend. He looks like a Black Hans Moleman from "The Simpsons" and he's goo-goo-ga-ga over the super-skinny Diana Ross-ish weave wearing day care lady who works downstairs. We are still cool with each other and we are tight at work, but he is no longer someone I want to date. I am so over him because. . . . . .

Confession #2: my ex-hubby and I have been talking on the phone QUITE regularly for the past month. Like everyday, sometimes up to 4 times a day. He is coming to spend time with me and our son next weekend. I can't wait. A reconciliation is in the works. I still love my ex-husband. Very much. And I know he still loves me too. He's even looking for a job here in Jacksonville and planning on moving here and you know I'm scouring the papers and talking to people trying to get him a job!

Confession #3: Being an investigator is no longer alluring for me. What I don't like is all of the late nights. Every night last week, I didn't get home before 10pm, with me getting home after midnight on Thursday night. I knew there were some late nights involved but I didn't bank on so many. With a possible reconciliation with ex-hubby, I want to focus on re-building my family and I can't do that being out 1/2 the night at work. I talked with my boss about it but she feels that I'm doing well and does not want me to leave. I did tell her that I'd give it a month. Meanwhile, I am looking for another job that is eight to five-ish so that I can be at home (and stay home) with my family.
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Old 05-09-2006, 10:22 AM
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Ok, I think its about time I said (typed) this. I think what has been holding me back is my deep fear that it will come true. I have a crush on a co-worker! I've had a crush on him for years, we use to work together, then he left and now we work together again. I think he is a beautiful person, very caring and funny (at least to me). I don't think we can be together because another friend use to love him (like for real) and he told her that he was not the setteling down type. Now she is engaged to marry someone else. He says the most interesting things to me, I think, just to see my reaction. I told him if he doesn't stop, I may start thinking he is serious, and he looked at me all werid and stuff. Anyway, I like the attention but not sure how I would feel if it turned serious.

Thanks I needed to put it out there!
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Old 05-09-2006, 02:21 PM
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My first confession...

I graduate in 10 days with a degree in Broadcast Journalism and I don't think I want to be a journalist anymore.

Someone pray for me.
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Old 05-09-2006, 02:23 PM
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Re: My first confession...

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I graduate in 10 days with a degree in Broadcast Journalism and I don't think I want to be a journalist anymore.

Someone pray for me.
Congrats on graduation, soror!! And I feel you (I graduate in 4 days and wished I had stayed in Politics). Do you at least plan on staying in broadcasting? You'll do well wherever you go!

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Old 05-09-2006, 04:44 PM
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Re: Re: My first confession...

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Congrats on graduation, soror!! And I feel you (I graduate in 4 days and wished I had stayed in Politics). Do you at least plan on staying in broadcasting? You'll do well wherever you go!

enigma_AKA
Thank you for your kind words, Soror! I am actually very lost right now... (I suppose I should be posting in the 'prayer requests' section! But no, I think I am just going to go to grad school and get my masters and hopefully go into PR.
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Old 05-11-2006, 12:45 PM
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My confession...

This semester has not been very productive for me...

I must of been really feeling myself. After I heard that I was getting published after I heard I won Outstanding Grad paper at the LERA conference I just completely slacked. I would come to class late and leave early! I still managed a 4.0 for this semester but I know that I didn't put forth my best effort.

I'm being praised for my less than lethargic effort.
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Old 05-11-2006, 02:06 PM
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GHOST_WOLF....

You basicaly said all of that to admit that you need a swift kick in the arse for your slothiness this semester?
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Old 05-11-2006, 02:54 PM
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Re: GHOST_WOLF....

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You basicaly said all of that to admit that you need a swift kick in the arse for your slothiness this semester?
Yep!!
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Old 05-11-2006, 03:11 PM
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GHOST_WOLF, you are a big person to admit that. Just don't let it happen again!!!
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Old 06-05-2006, 10:08 PM
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When it comes to dating, I am the wishy-washyest person on the planet. One day I like a guy. The next day I could take him or leave him.
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