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06-25-2008, 11:51 PM
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i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more. 
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06-26-2008, 12:48 AM
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i think i need a date so badly.
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Girl, stop. This is probably why you don't have one--want it, but don't need it! And I thought about that movie yesterday--Not to be cynical, but I don't think he would've married her if he didn't know that she was dying. I can easily see him thinking "I'll be free to date again in less than 6 months, why not make her dream come true?"
Okay, I'd have to go through like 3 years of backstory to completely explain why I don't date men from church, so I'll just let the statement stand. Only PB knows the whole story and that took awhile to get out. 
As for work...IDK, I guess that's a good point that you never know until you try. But men keep getting fired for sexual harassment at my job.  I think I'll stay away from them, too. However, I've decided to go to this year's ABPsi convention! Lots of young, talented black men, aspiring to be psychologists...I'm smiling just thinking about it! I know it might be like 70% female, though, so I have to step up my A-game. 
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06-26-2008, 11:24 AM
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i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more. |
troll confessions? 
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06-26-2008, 07:25 PM
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i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more. |
This sounds totally suicidal.
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06-29-2008, 01:34 AM
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Originally Posted by RushLeader08
i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more. |
maybe it's because you're so gorgeous and guys are intimidated by your hotness! 
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06-26-2008, 12:49 AM
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Well, that's all folks. This right here wraps up this whole thread. Good post.
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06-27-2008, 11:37 PM
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^^^This just gave me an image of Bobby Brown a la Two Can Play That Game. 
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06-28-2008, 11:26 PM
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I have been single for like a year and half. I just hate that whole "does he like me" stage. I met a guy tonight....we talked for a while. He never asked me for my phone number, so when the reception ended we parted ways.
And, how do I know I've been single for too long? He told me enough about himself that I was able to find him in the directory of the university where he's doing graduate work. Nope, I did't have the guts to ask him for his phone number, but I can do plenty of sleuthing and find it without having permission to.
Whatever. When they get back from their honeymoon, I'm going to ask the groom about him....see what he says.
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06-29-2008, 01:12 AM
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so, heres how i know my life hasnt changed since 8th grade.
went to the movies with my BFF from college. watched cute guys at the concession stand. kicked our feet up on the seats and laughed way too loud in the theatre.
the popcorn hasnt changed since 1998, neither has the boys. i still fuss in the mirror about my hair, and why am i still broke, boyfriendless and still looking for my lipgloss?
TISNF.
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06-29-2008, 05:16 PM
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^^^No. But I don't think it's all their fault. Nowadays, women are so burnt out over the "Hey shawty whatchyo name is?" that if a man walked up and said "Excuse me, Miss Lady, I just wanted to tell you that your eyes are beautiful." one might just snap and diss him like any other. That was the chief complaint from guys in college--if they tried to talk to a girl, they'd be rude like the male had just lifted their skirt or something. The female rebuttal was that it was all they knew a guy to do so they assumed the respectfulness to be a façade. Sad that that's the state of things. I would for that to happen...with a man that doesn't need a complete physical overhaul.
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06-29-2008, 05:25 PM
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^^^No. But I don't think it's all their fault. Nowadays, women are so burnt out over the "Hey shawty whatchyo name is?" that if a man walked up and said "Excuse me, Miss Lady, I just wanted to tell you that your eyes are beautiful." one might just snap and diss him like any other. That was the chief complaint from guys in college--if they tried to talk to a girl, they'd be rude like the male had just lifted their skirt or something. The female rebuttal was that it was all they knew a guy to do so they assumed the respectfulness to be a façade. Sad that that's the state of things. I would for that to happen...with a man that doesn't need a complete physical overhaul. |
But it is really not that difficult to get rid of the buttwipes... All you have to do is starting talking about Jesus and how He saves.... And that comment is like Raid, it removes all the roaches...
I'd test a fool and invite him to chutch, tell him he needs Jesus and I will pray for him... See if he shows up and what he shows up in... If dude runs away--then you know he is a fool.
If dude actually does show up, and helps that one old lady deacon that knows all the rules of incorporation of the chutch, but ain't nunna her chilluns show up to chutch on mother's day or Christmas, then that's a gentleman you keep...
Hayle, we got some of my elder sorority sistah on lock when we need some sizing done... And don't even begin to start me on how all my dad's fraternity brothers started evaluating my husband before we got married...
Y'all don't work with older folks and recruitment do you?
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08-21-2008, 11:49 PM
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But it is really not that difficult to get rid of the buttwipes... All you have to do is starting talking about Jesus and how He saves.... And that comment is like Raid, it removes all the roaches...
I'd test a fool and invite him to chutch, tell him he needs Jesus and I will pray for him... See if he shows up and what he shows up in... If dude runs away--then you know he is a fool.
If dude actually does show up, and helps that one old lady deacon that knows all the rules of incorporation of the chutch, but ain't nunna her chilluns show up to chutch on mother's day or Christmas, then that's a gentleman you keep...
Hayle, we got some of my elder sorority sistah on lock when we need some sizing done... And don't even begin to start me on how all my dad's fraternity brothers started evaluating my husband before we got married...
Y'all don't work with older folks and recruitment do you?
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This is a brilliant idea.
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08-22-2008, 07:47 PM
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no it isn't
what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
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08-22-2008, 09:58 PM
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no it isn't
what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
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The point is to bring them around the old ladies so he can be under some scrutiny...
They know how to ask essential questions...
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08-23-2008, 01:00 AM
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no it isn't
what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
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lol lol lol
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