lonely and depressed...

[DSTCHAOS]

I belonged to a singles' ministry about 7 years ago. It wasn't a dating pool. It was just Christian singles who didn't have family responsibilities so we wanted to hang out. Very platonic environment.

It was fun but, again, singles' events are sometimes too obvious of places to find dates. The obvious places often don't provide what you need. I still say let your guard down in your normal routine (work, leisure, hobbies, etc.) and what God has for you will be for you.

[RushLeader08]

i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by RushLeader08

i think i need a date so badly.

Girl, stop. This is probably why you don't have one--want it, but don't need it! And I thought about that movie yesterday--Not to be cynical, but I don't think he would've married her if he didn't know that she was dying. I can easily see him thinking "I'll be free to date again in less than 6 months, why not make her dream come true?"


Okay, I'd have to go through like 3 years of backstory to completely explain why I don't date men from church, so I'll just let the statement stand. Only PB knows the whole story and that took awhile to get out.

As for work...IDK, I guess that's a good point that you never know until you try. But men keep getting fired for sexual harassment at my job. I think I'll stay away from them, too. However, I've decided to go to this year's ABPsi convention! Lots of young, talented black men, aspiring to be psychologists...I'm smiling just thinking about it! I know it might be like 70% female, though, so I have to step up my A-game.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by RushLeader08

i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more.

troll confessions?

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by RushLeader08

i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more.

This sounds totally suicidal.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by RushLeader08

i agree sometimes i get really sad and wonder why i am alone. its so nice out during the summer that i think i need a date so badly. in fact yesterday i watched a walk to remember with all the windows open at night but i just wanted to kill myself at the end. they were so in love and it was jamies first boyfriend!!! ive had four boyfriends this year alone and i cant seem to find mr right. i dont know maybe some of us are supposed to die a sad lonely death. i think ill go watch the notebook and cry some more.

maybe it's because you're so gorgeous and guys are intimidated by your hotness!

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

God has for you will be for you.

Well, that's all folks. This right here wraps up this whole thread. Good post.