My AI search!! - Page 7

tinydancer · #1 12-02-2003, 01:02 AM

Great!! That sounds like a fun activity and a good way to meet people.

pinkyphimu · #2 12-02-2003, 11:35 PM

have a great time! that sounds like fun!

navane · #3 12-04-2003, 04:52 AM

Cool! That sounds like fun! I hope you have a great time meeting the ladies!

PNAM,

.....Kelly

WhiteDaisy128 · #4 12-05-2003, 09:39 AM

I can't wait to hear all about it Jen!

JennRN · #5 12-07-2003, 07:20 PM

Hey guys!! Well, I had my event today, and it was so much fun!! We were at a bead and jewelry making shop, and we basically got these snowflake shaped ornaments and chose whatever color and shape beads we wanted to put on our ornaments-they had so many different colors and shapes, it was crazy!! And I'm not very artistic anyways, so I was like, oh god lord, where do I even start!!

But it was fun-there were about 8 girls there, some I knew already, and some I just met today. Everyone was really nice, and we just did our ornaments and talked and had fun! We talked about ideas for events next spring, and I think we're going to go to one of those places where you can paint your own pottery! The AC pres gave me an article about AI that she had and told me she would talk to me soon. I think we're going to try and have an informal dinner with whomever we can get together before Christmas! The event lasted about 3 hours, and I really had a great time.

So, things are going well with my group!

Celestia*Shine · #6 12-07-2003, 09:33 PM

Hey Jenn

That's EXCELLENT that you had such a nice time! THat's definately a cool activity to do, I wish that there was something like that around here...there might be, I'll have to check it out...hmmm. Anyway! That's great news that you obtained info about your orgs. AI process. Hopefully, Its very informative and can answer some of the questions that you may have had about the process ( since its so different for all groups ). I'm sure that you're excited!! I'm happy for you! Keep us updated!! I always enjoy hearing about other AI's!

navane · #7 12-08-2003, 02:37 AM

It sounds like you had a good time! What a fun sounding event! I love those kinds of activities.

Even better is that it sounds like you had a great opportunity to meet 'n' greet with other members in a fun setting. Not to mention that the AC President gave you some info on AI! I think it's just so cool that you're using phrases that make use of the word "we".

Here's to looking forward to a very productive spring!

PNAM,

.....Kelly

rainbowbrightCS · #8 12-10-2003, 11:46 AM

Sounds like you had a blast. I hope the next exent/get together will be just as great if not better.

Christia

JennRN · #9 02-11-2004, 08:25 AM

Here's some news for you guys-nothing big, don't get excited

. Next Thursday I'm going to an impromptou happy hour with the alum group, which I'm really excited about, because there hasn't been an event since December! So, it will be fun to go and meet more of the girls!

But on another note, I sort of need to vent. I've been reading everyone's threads about their AI journey and it seems like , in comparisson, mine is at a crawl! Don't get me wrong, I am so happy for the others when they finally find their homes!! It just seems like, they're are all doing stuff I'm not-let me explain. I know people have filled out applications, sent in resumes, gotten info packets, etc-and I have done none of that. The possibility of AI with my group has only been mentioned in passing about twice. When I go to events, no one asks me about why I'm doing this, what I like about the org, what attracted me to it, what I could bring to the org-or even the AI process with their org. I don't know how anyone feels about the whole AI process, except for about 2 of the girls. I wonder, should I bring it up in conversation? Should I wait for someone else to say something about it? I just don't know. And then I keep reading about everyone getting initiated in the spring '04 class, and I get really discouraged. Like maybe I should look for a home elsewhere. But the thing is, I don't want to go elsewhere! I really like this group-and the girls I've met so far. And please don't think I'm trying to speak badly about them, I'm just discouraged and venting. But I know this can be a long process too.

Anyhoo, I'm sorry this is so long and disparing!!

jhujenn · #10 02-11-2004, 11:15 AM

Jenn,

My personal thought is that if you really like the group and the women stick with it. If it makes you feel any better I have only been to one activity and then the group told me they weren't interested in sponsoring me for AI. Keep your chin up. I completely understand how you feel with everyone getting bids, but there are people who are behind you in the process.

Take care

MelodyCat · #11 02-11-2004, 05:08 PM

Sometimes a chapter is really slow to warm up to the idea of AI. I'm really surprised everything has gone as quickly as it has for me - I really wasn't expecting it after reading other AI stories. I'd figured for a much longer process.

Keep your chin up.

I think things are progressing along all right - sometimes it's just slow with some groups. We're all cheering for you!

DGMarie · #12 02-11-2004, 10:01 PM

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tinydancer · #13 02-11-2004, 10:37 PM

Oh, hon, please don't be discouraged. It took me almost 2 years and at times it seemed like I was at a standstill. My Gamma Phi chapter was slow in moving because they had been burned by some women who were so anxious to AI and after they were initiated, they did not participate. They wanted to be absolutely sure of me.

Perhaps your group is the same way. If you loved your group from the start (like I did Gamma Phi), then that is probably where you need to be. Things just move reeeeeaaaallllly slooooowwwwly sometimes.

JennRN · #14 02-12-2004, 12:49 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DGMarie
is it possible that not everyone in the group knows you aren't a member of their GLO??

I actually wondered that myself. But back in the summer, the president of the alum chapter sent out an email about events which included a little bit about me-as in I was interested in learning more about ABC, would be attending some of the events, etc. But I have wondered this as well. But don't you think that it would have been discussed?

Thanks for listening and for the kind words. I was venting at the end of a hard night shift at the hospital and wasn't in the best of moods!

Tom Earp · #15 02-12-2004, 06:36 PM

Maybe you were not discussed or cussed!

But, if you and they were comfortable with each other then there is a fit!

Now the problems seems to be that maybe they are not aware that your are not a member but looking for AI! How do they feel about AI and do they understand what it really is?

Maybe the next attendence, you single out a few and talk to them explaining who you are, what and why you are doing what you are doing and, what you feel you might be able to do being a AI member.