I think I made a mistake.

[MaryPoppins]

Originally Posted by AZTheta

wait... what?

Have you thought about starting your own sorority?

Yes, can't believe she didn't think of this already.

[summer_gphib]

Originally Posted by MaryPoppins

Yes, can't believe she didn't think of this already.

It should be an online sorority!

[adpiucf]

OP: I'm sorry you've been disappointed with your sorority experience, but as you have learned what's done is done. The lesson to come from all of this is that YOU are now an adult, and as such, you are responsible for yourself. It is not your sorority sisters' job to make sure you are making grades, prioritizing, eating right, going to bed on time, etc. Your sorority sisters are not responsible for your general welfare. Your sorority has not replaced your parents. Rather, you have left the nest and are responsible for these things. Your sorority is a social organization and a way for you to make friends and get involved with the college community. Take it for what it is and own up to the fact that your mistakes are your own. A big sister's job is to sponsor the little through initiation, not to remind you to eat your vegetables, go to class and study. Now that you are an adult, your life is your own. Make good decisions and take responsibility when you make bad ones, as here. Good luck to you.

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by Diana007

Being a White Anglo Saxon Protestant I have no interest in joining a NPHC group. I feel that I cannot lie to pretend that I am trying to be something that I am not. That is why I am only looking into the National Panhellenic Conference Sororities!

please step away from the keyboard. you are not presenting yourself in a positive light.

fwiw, the NPC ship may well have sailed for you. you may wish to investigate other organizations.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by Diana007

Being a White Anglo Saxon Protestant I have no interest in joining a NPHC group. I feel that I cannot lie to pretend that I am trying to be something that I am not. That is why I am only looking into the National Panhellenic Conference Sororities!

My lovely sisters who are not white are not pretending to be anything. They are Kappa Deltas.

As someone who was raised Catholic, I'm not pretending, either.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by Diana007

Being a White Anglo Saxon Protestant I have no interest in joining a NPHC group. I feel that I cannot lie to pretend that I am trying to be something that I am not. That is why I am only looking into the National Panhellenic Conference Sororities!

I was wanting to give you the ESL benefit of the doubt, but I find I cannot do that since you're a non-lying WASP. You're also a moron, bless your heart.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by Diana007

Being only a part time student I was not allowed even to participate in Sorority Rush. I obeyed all the rules of not joining one group then give it up to join another one. Why cannot I join as an Alumnae when I was never allowed to join in the first place? It is not like I am giving up an NPC membership to join an NPHC group!

Most NPC groups don't actively recruit members who are post-graduate. They don't have regular intake procedures for alumnae members. There are avenues for alumnae initiation, but it's an exception, not a regular path to membership.

That's just the way it works.

If you want to learn more, go read the AI board.

[DrPhil]

I think Diane007 was created as a distraction and should not be taken seriously.

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

I think Diane007 was created as a distraction and should not be taken seriously.

yes indeed. and thank you for the hug, i do feel better!

[summer_gphib]

Originally Posted by Diana007

Since the campus never really gave any other NPC groups the chance to colonize to recruit new members that were not already on campus how does this mean that I do not have a chance to become a member? It was not my fault that the President of the University was an interned Japanese during WWII. He did not want any NPC Sororities recognized on campus while he was President!

You are actually a very boring troll. You really need to improve your trolling skills. *yawn*

[ASUADPi]

Originally Posted by Diana007

What I am saying is the truth. The University that I graduated from also really exists. The Asian Sorority is Alpha Phi Gamma. That is the one that was added later. Does that not give you any clue where I graduated from? The only four Sororities on the campus are Chi Omega, Kappa Delta, Sigma Kappa, and Zeta Tau Alpha. The University is Cal Poly Pomona! We have never had any more NPC colonizations since 1983!

Your situation has ABSOLUTELY NO BEARING on this thread!

What do you want from us? It's not our fault that the school you went to didn't have Greek Life.

You need to move away from the keyboard and actually DO RESEARCH and you will discover that AI isn't something that you can just petition the sorority of your choice to do. It doesn't work like that.

You have to be APPROACHED by an active member in good standing to do AI and the process amongst itself takes YEARS.

And right now, your attitude on this public forum, is going to turn many people off.

I am getting the impression that you feel you are entitled to Greek Life and AI, no one is entitled to Greek Life.

[summer_gphib]

Originally Posted by Diana007

The woman that joined the NPC Sorority felt that she made a mistake because she had not joined an NPHC group. If she only wanted to join an NPHC group she should not have rushed the NPC group in the first place. I was just trying to point out that there are other people that would consider it an Honor to be able to become a member of an NPC group and would not want to give up their membership to become a member of an NPHC group.

Being a member off any GLO should be an honor-- they all have rich histories that should make every member proud.

That being said, you have no power here. Be gone! Before someone drops a house on you too!

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by Diana007

The woman that became a member of an NPC group thinks that she made a mistake by not becoming a member of an NPHC group. If she wanted to join an NPHC group in the first place then she should have become a member of an NPHC in the first place. However, to be an Alumnae Initate you cannot be a current member of any NPC to join another one that you want instead of another NPC group. Therfore how am I not considered eligible to only become an Alumnae Initate? Since this is the only classification and nothing else are available for me to become a member?

look. i can't say no one wants you. i can say that repeating the same thing and expecting a different answer is not a good plan. and i'm going out on a limb b/c you are a very silly troll: YOU DON'T GET IT.

PAY ATTENTION NOW

YOU ARE SOL. and i just ate my last cruller. time for a nap.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by Diana007

The woman that became a member of an NPC group thinks that she made a mistake by not becoming a member of an NPHC group. If she wanted to join an NPHC group in the first place then she should have become a member of an NPHC in the first place. However, to be an Alumnae Initate you cannot be a current member of any NPC to join another one that you want instead of another NPC group. Therfore how am I not considered eligible to only become an Alumnae Initate? Since this is the only classification and nothing else are available for me to become a member?

You graduated. You are an alumna of somewhere. You are not an undergraduate. You are not eligible to be a collegiate member because you are no longer in college.

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by Diana007

The woman that became a member of an NPC group thinks that she made a mistake by not becoming a member of an NPHC group. If she wanted to join an NPHC group in the first place then she should have become a member of an NPHC in the first place. However, to be an Alumnae Initate you cannot be a current member of any NPC to join another one that you want instead of another NPC group. Therfore how am I not considered eligible to only become an Alumnae Initate? Since this is the only classification and nothing else are available for me to become a member?

A logic course would have done you a lot of good...along with remedial English....