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06-09-2010, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
She basically said that she wore her sister's letters all the time, she's more southern than everyone, and that her mom took her to formals. LOL.
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And that her great-grandmother was a chapter founder.
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06-10-2010, 12:13 AM
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And that her great-grandmother was a chapter founder.
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Hence why I'm suspecting kdlady80 of being related to this whole situation trollwise.
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06-09-2010, 11:50 PM
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And that we have no idea what a legacy really is.
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06-11-2010, 12:37 PM
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^^No matter how hard you try UFgatorLove there will ALWAYS be those young ladies that will never listen and will not keep their options open. They just do not care how much you may know and what position you hold etc.
Good Luck this recruitment season.
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06-12-2010, 08:06 PM
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Honestly, as a fellow Greek Gator, I don't really care if the OP "keeps her mind open" to other houses. I agree that it's stupid and foolish of her, yes, but I doubt that any of us will change her mind on the subject. To be blunt, I don't want one the spots in my chapter being taken by someone who will be bitter, unpleasant and probably end up dropping.
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06-13-2010, 03:10 AM
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Originally Posted by GatorGirl27
Honestly, as a fellow Greek Gator, I don't really care if the OP "keeps her mind open" to other houses. I agree that it's stupid and foolish of her, yes, but I doubt that any of us will change her mind on the subject. To be blunt, I don't want one the spots in my chapter being taken by someone who will be bitter, unpleasant and probably end up dropping.
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Oh, I agree with you. If I figure out who she is, our doors are closed to her - and the likes of her, as well. We send away the ones who are like this "over" us (that sounds weird to say) several times during recruitment.
But, I still want to try to give her usefull advice as much as I possibly can
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06-13-2010, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted by UFgatorLove
Oh, I agree with you. If I figure out who she is, our doors are closed to her - and the likes of her, as well. We send away the ones who are like this "over" us (that sounds weird to say) several times during recruitment.
But, I still want to try to give her usefull advice as much as I possibly can
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Sooo I just read through this entire thread and I have two words for the OP:
You're effed.
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06-13-2010, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by GatorGirl27
Honestly, as a fellow Greek Gator, I don't really care if the OP "keeps her mind open" to other houses. I agree that it's stupid and foolish of her, yes, but I doubt that any of us will change her mind on the subject. To be blunt, I don't want one the spots in my chapter being taken by someone who will be bitter, unpleasant and probably end up dropping.
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thinking the same thing! 
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06-18-2010, 10:27 PM
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Wow. This is one of the rudest things I've ever read! I'm an active at a smaller school (about 2000) and a girl was dropped from her legacy house during last year's recruitment. Her sister is an active and held a pretty high position within the house. If it can happen at a small school where there are far fewer legacies, I'm convinced it happens at larger school. I was going to wish you luck after reading your first post because I know how exciting it would be to have the chance to share that with your family. I've changed my mind since seeing how disrespectful and rude you were to a Panhellenic member from your school offering you advice!
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06-19-2010, 07:57 AM
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This thread makes me sad and sick at the same time. I was a UF student back in the day and I hate to admit it, but year after year there were numerous girls just like this one. There must be something in the water. Some do get exactly what they want and will never learn. Some do take a huge fall though. ( just not sure what they even learn from their fall -- it is in the attitude and some can't shake it for the life of them )
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06-24-2010, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by baci
This thread makes me sad and sick at the same time. I was a UF student back in the day and I hate to admit it, but year after year there were numerous girls just like this one. There must be something in the water. Some do get exactly what they want and will never learn. Some do take a huge fall though. ( just not sure what they even learn from their fall -- it is in the attitude and some can't shake it for the life of them )
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It's really, really frustrating to see. I rushed a girl last year who spent the whole party telling me how she was going to XYZ because her sister was one. In addition to the fact that PNMS have NO control over whether houses ask them back or not, it is so incredibly rude to come into another chapter and act like this. And at UF, most girls coming through are a legacy to some chapter or another. It doesn't make you that special.
But really, to the OP, I wish you the best with recruitment. I just hope you aren't in my house.
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06-28-2010, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted by GatorGirl27
It's really, really frustrating to see. I rushed a girl last year who spent the whole party telling me how she was going to XYZ because her sister was one. In addition to the fact that PNMS have NO control over whether houses ask them back or not, it is so incredibly rude to come into another chapter and act like this. And at UF, most girls coming through are a legacy to some chapter or another. It doesn't make you that special.
But really, to the OP, I wish you the best with recruitment. I just hope you aren't in my house.
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Not just at UF, but even at less competitive schools like USF, apparently this happens almost every year and it's sad to hear. I don't think I would have the guts to be so rude in some other org's house.
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07-01-2010, 09:50 PM
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I don't think I would have the guts to be so rude in some other org's house.
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07-06-2010, 11:22 PM
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I'm SO excited to rush at UF this fall!
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