Deltas I truly need ya'll help

[dzdst796]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I'm gonna report you for hazing.

OOPS. My Bad Big Sister.

[MeezDiscreet]

Sorors schoolin' and wreckin' about deference!!!!!! I LOVES it!!!!! I think I want to make a trip to Jersey and meet a few sorors!

[DSTKellie]

Originally Posted by ColorfulCre8ion

So Reds6, if you don't have any pearls of wisdom to give.... then I no longer need to hear from you, thank you!

Whoooaaa!! Hold on. Now I was on your side and I admit that what happened to you was very unfortunate but please believe that is no reason for disrespect! I understand that you maybe angry and frustrated but watch your tone and remember that no one on this board has insulted you or mistreated you. We don't know you so there is a lot to be asked and assumed just from your posts.

Remember Humility! My mother taught me that as a child, even if I was having a bad day, I BET not eva' disrespect her.

Best wishes to you.

[ColorfulCre8ion]

I apologize Soror Reds6. I was rude and out of line and I sincerely apologize to you and other Sorors.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by MeezDiscreet

I think I want to make a trip to Jersey and meet a few sorors!

Bring your pepper spray.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ColorfulCre8ion

I apologize Soror Reds6. I was rude and out of line and I sincerely apologize to you and other Sorors.

You're cool. Probably just felt overwhelmed.

[pinkies up]

I think what everyone has been trying to tell you that although it wasn't right for your LS's and Sorors to treat you like you were contagious, it does hurt when you are supposed to be close to people and you witheld information. I'm sure they shared intimate secrets with you. You have to understand their anger and hurt. No, they aren't right, but their feelings are valid. Maybe you all need to handle this in house, and then ban together as sisters. They need to understand that there's nothing other organizations love more than to see a house divided.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by ColorfulCre8ion

I apologize Soror Reds6. I was rude and out of line and I sincerely apologize to you and other Sorors.

No problem young one. Just remember you may think people don't know what chapter or school you are speaking about, but you gave enough identifing information that wouldn't make it hard to find out. I'm sure any Soror on here would be glad to speak to you about personal situations in private. Just as your LS's need to uphold Delta, so do you.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Bring your pepper spray.

I'm gonna give you deference on the other site!

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Reds6

I'm gonna give you deference on the other site!

Lemme go see if you forgot!!!

[treblk]

Originally Posted by laylo

If/When you lost your virginity, would/did you tell your girlfriends or your parents? If you'd gotten pregnant in highschool or college, wouldn't your girlfriends' reactions have been much better than your mom's?

Who(m) are you addressing these questions to?

[DSTKellie]

Aww them Sorors from Delta Zeta are no joke...lol

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Bring your pepper spray.

dammit

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by Reds6

But Steph, you all knew each other and we made it a point to know you guys and for you guys to know us before you were selected. There's no way someone could have hid they were a single parent. The point of pledging is to build trust as you bond and learn about your sister. Staying strong and enduring.

Soror...you misunderstood my post...I didn't hide the fact I was a parent or my age...I just didn't make those facts the preamble to everything I said or did while around my pros before I was selected...I knew the reputation of my chapter and that I would be ummm "busy" alot and I didn't want the fact that I was a mother be the automatic reason I wasn't selected..when my line "hung out" it was usually at my house because I had my daughter, she was no secret....with the current case in this thread, why would it be necessary for the soror to put her sexuality out there...heterosexuals don't greet people with "hello I'm so and so and by the way I'm straight"...just like with being selected for a job, its human nature that people's personal biases and beliefs will come into play when they are making selections...I have a LS that we all kinda suspect is possibly gay, does it matter to me? No, why should it, do you...I went through hell and high water with my line but my two LSs that I'm best friends with I learn new stuff about them all the time...hell I learn new things about my siblings still...I can't be mad at soror for going through her process as a woman who happens to be a lesbian as opposed to a lesbian who is becoming a Delta...I'm sure there's so much more that she is bringing to the table...

ETA: just read what went down in the posts yesterday...definitely not condoning the disrespect that went on..I'm sure young soror is just hurting and frustrated though...like I said earlier, let the haters hate and know that Delta is bigger then your chapter...best of luck to you...

[Lolaluvsdelta]

I don't understand how the OP was disrespectful?? The whole time Reds was questioning the validity of her post and basically calling her a liar. Who wouldn't get offended or upset by that?

Far as the gay thing I would have an issue with that cause thats just something i aint used to seeing.