Bad Boys

[macallan25]

Originally Posted by KAY10

When I said nice guy, not one time did I say doormat or a nice guy is a guy who says yes and if you say jump he says how high. Why do women consider this a nice guy? I was reading all these post and virtually all of them describe a nice guy as being soft and a whimp. That's proof right there that most women believe that a nice guy is considered to be a whimpy mama's boy who can't make his own decisions. Ladies......this is not a nice guy. This is a boy not a man.

The difinintion that I have for a nice man is one who knows how to treat a lady like a gentleman should treat a lady, not one who can't make up his own mind.

A nice woman is a woman who not only respects herself, but one who has her own opinions and is able to make her own decisions and one who also wants a man that repsects her and treats her like a lady.

The bad boy is the player, user, and the one who disresprects women every chance he gets. Based on these post it seems to me that women feel this is the definition of a strong man.

I think you should calm down.

[OtterXO]

Originally Posted by KAY10

Based on these post it seems to me that women feel this is the definition of a strong man.

No. You are completely wrong. If you got that from the posts above then you should really go back and re-read them. It seems to me like you've decided that you have all women pegged....so there's really nothing any of us can say to change your mind. Good luck to you.

[NuSigmaBeta]

Bad boys are just more fun period. Women get excited about a man whos behaviour is a bit random. They dont know what to expect from them.

[Langox510x]

Originally Posted by KAY10

Can someone please tell me why women like bad boys??? You know, the thugs, losers, guys that mistreat women. Hey fellas have you ever heard this: "Oh he's cute and all, he's just too nice." What the hell.

Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.

[starang21]

Originally Posted by Langox510x

Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.

your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.

[Langox510x]

Originally Posted by starang21

your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.

I don't blame you for saying that. I thought she was far stronger then that, and I even admit I've lost much respect for her myself.

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by starang21

your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.

LMAO

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by Langox510x

Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.

LOL. Yeah, Kappas have the "Pretty Boy" image nation wide and yes we are also considered to be players. Genltemen, but players. Fortunately not all of us are this way. I'm not. I am a pretty boy though. At least the ladies think I am. Seriously though the girl you were talking about will more than likely stay with guys like the one she's currently with until she's about 25. I don't know why they like guys like that. You're right though, the good guys rarely get the women, and if they do, it's never long, at least not when their young.