Is it just me, or is it girls in sororities mainly date guys in fraternities?

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by Professor
lol frat - but seriouly, this is no way to treat our sisters!!!!!!

Oh really, brother Professor? Oh, I see--it's okay for the sorors to rag tag the new members but the new members better walk a tight rope? Come on now, frat. I hope that isn't the case. I'm just here to share my opinions and thoughts. In the case of this thread, I'm only speaking on the subject BlackAdam braught up in his post:

I noticed this trend back in the day when I was undergrad, and it appears to be the same way these days. I say this because I visited my old campus the other day, and overheard one of my neo's saying he hates dating girls in sororities because he noticed that most of them only date guys in either:

A) A specific frat or
B) In a frat period.

Which lead the both of us to somewhat believe that if brothas aren't affiliated with someone's frat, alot of these sistas "probably" wouldn't even know you existed, much less give you the time of day because you're not in the "right" circle. I know speaking as a guy, we could care less if a girl is affiliated or not, but for some reason, it appears (And I stress appears) that our female counterparts, tend to date along the greek lines exclusively, well, at least a lot of them tend to from what I see. Am I just imagining this or what? What do you guys think?

Am I allowed to simply share my opinions on this topic or am I to be badgered for not following the flock? Seriously, it REALLY ain't that deep but I see the ones that are saying it ain't that deep are the ones that are throwing insults and assuming I'm overly defensive and paranoid.

Participated in or attended by the people or community: “Opinions are formed in a process of open discussion and public debate”

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Here's my little story I'd like to share: When I was new on campus, I decided to go as incognito as possible as not to attract a fanclub. I showed a little interest in a sister and she brushed me off. A few months passed by and I met another sister whom I dated consistently. The same sister that had previously brushed me off evidently started asking around campus who I was.

Somehow, she found out who I was--one day she scoped me out in the cafeteria, waited until my girl walked to the other side of the cafeteria then, she approached me at the buffet table. She walked up to me with a big smile and said: "Hello, [insert my name here] nice day isn't it?" I looked at her, thinking to myself: "How the hell does she know my name?" Cracked a smile, and walked away.

Next thing I know, sisters start approaching me at random, slipping in their initial conversations with me: "You're the guy in the black car with the tag." Those encounters cracked me up left and right.

[starang21]

uhhh.....

[FeeFee]

Wow, just wow.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by FeeFee
Wow, just wow.

It's too hot in here for me.

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
It's too hot in here for me.

I know, I know. I should have worn my paraphernalia and told errybody I was an Alpha up front shouldn't I have? Heh heh heh heh...

[SKEEphistAKAte]

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
Anybody ever heard of Fleet Phospho soda?

The both of you need an entire bottle to yourselves.


Like I said before...MOVING RIGHT ALONG...

Thanks. And I have a tall, cold glass of Lemon Clorox for you. Drink up wankster.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by CORINTHIAN1906
I know, I know. I should have worn my paraphernalia and told errybody I was an Alpha up front shouldn't I have? Heh heh heh heh...

Um I think we all know that from your screenname.
And that is not where my WOW comes from.

[FeeFee]

Oh my dayums!!!!

It's a new day.

[BlackAdam06]

Man....I justed wanted people's opinion on the thread I started. This has turned into some sort of battle of the sexes ordeal....

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Um I think we all know that from your screenname.
And that is not where my WOW comes from.

That wasn't what I was refering to, Crimson. I was alluding to my short story. The point of the story was, I chose not to wear my paraphernalia just to see how peeps would receive me as a GDI at the HBCU I attended. The regular brothers were cool with me but the sisters were picky about who they talked to until they found out I was an Alpha then, here comes the phone calls and the hellos--shallow.

The sister I was dating at the time was going through intake with the Deltas so, she wanted to be as low key as possible, which was ideal for me at the time.

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by BlackAdam06
Man....I justed wanted people's opinion on the thread I started. This has turned into some sort of battle of the sexes ordeal....

Brother, a topic like this is a very sensitive topic for many GLO sisters. You're not going to get a real answer to your question, BlackAdam, at least not the kind of answer you're looking for. The people that really need to bring up the opinions will choose to lurk and keep quiet because they know they'll end up being ridiculed like I have.

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
Thanks. And I have a tall, cold glass of Lemon Clorox for you. Drink up wankster.

Thank you, SKEEphi. That lemon Clorox probably has a better after taste than that phospho soda. However, I'll have to pass on that Clorox because the scent might clash with my CK cologne. Thank's anyway though.

[ladygreek]

Corinthian, seriously how old are you? You think you have been ridiculed here? No way. Folx were just responding to your posts. But now you won't introduce yourself properly because you feel two AKAs have mistreated you? Wow, just wow.

[CORINTHIAN1906]

Originally posted by ladygreek
Corinthian, seriously how old are you? You think you have been ridiculed here? No way. Folx were just responding to your posts. But now you won't introduce yourself properly because you feel two AKAs have mistreated you? Wow, just wow.

You know what? I also saw how this SKEEphi sister was also very rude with another person, tripplej, in another thread, as if she owned this site.

I've recieved nothing but negative, one-sided responses for posting my OPINION and you think I'm going to basically tell you people who I am? I don't care what kind of garbage you're alluding to by asking my age--I won't put up with being badgered and harrassed by people that call themselves being of a GLO and making calluous, arrogant, conceited, narrow-minded, uncalled for responses to a new members posts with as much warmth as a dog biscutt.

No wonder the topics in this forum are so dry and unappealing. You know what? I've made up my mind about this site. This site isn't worth my time if this is the treatment one will recieve. Thanks for showing me your true colors early in the game.