How bad is it to miss your first chapter meeting?

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by AzTheta

Guess what? You think you are just fine in your sorority standing.

Except, ya know.. in her other thread.. where she says she's on social probation.

[Regina.George]

Originally Posted by steelersgirly

Sometimes I just don't feel like going.
Our President puts the agenda online also so it is not like we don't know whats going on if we skip. However New Member Meetings are different; you should try to go to those.

[Alumiyum]

Originally Posted by steelersgirly

Sometimes I just don't feel like going.
Our President puts the agenda online also so it is not like we don't know whats going on if we skip. However New Member Meetings are different; you should try to go to those.

Yep, you're a bad example.

Try that on your future boss. See how it turns out.

[FleurGirl]

Originally Posted by steelersgirly

Hello,
I mentioned my social probation in my other post because it contributed to that topic, however it was not needed in this topic. I am on social probation but not for missing meetings, but for not going to other events (hence, going MIA) our sorority does not kick you out for being on Social Prob. obviously the other girls may get upset but oh well.

1) Meeting or event, it's all the same. If your chapter makes it a priority, it's something you should be present for.
2) Glad to see you have so much respect for your sisters that you can't be bothered to show up even if it hurts them.
3) Take your bad advice elsewhere.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by steelersgirly

Hello,
I mentioned my social probation in my other post because it contributed to that topic, however it was not needed in this topic. I am on social probation but not for missing meetings, but for not going to other events (hence, going MIA) our sorority does not kick you out for being on Social Prob. obviously the other girls may get upset but oh well.

1) If you say in one post that you're in good standing, and in another you say you're on probation (of any kind) people will call you out on it. You weren't specific about anything, so yea.. It sounded inconsistent.

2) You don't want to go to ANY sorority events.. So why aren't you dropping?

3) If your sorority doesnt kick you out for being on social probation (which I agree, isn't a reason to make you leave), I hope they kick you out for not showing up to anything... If for no other reason than to make room for another young woman who desperately wants to be in your place.