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Old 08-14-2010, 12:33 PM
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May we put a bottom line on this?

Many years ago, many sororities (and fraternities) were founded upon one religious principle or another. Not all, but many. Those of y'all who have a Baird's Manual only have to read about the founding of these GLOs.

Time went by, and religious boundaries became more blurred. People didn't choose their friends solely by religion, in or outside of the Greek system. At that point, decisions were made within various GLOs to accept members outside of their previous boundaries. My own recruitment story is full of these boundaries!

Many rituals may still retain aspects of their previous heritage, though. Those members who are not comfortable with these aspects need to either accept them, mentally substituting their own beliefs, or work with their Inter-/National organization to change the ritual.

We need to retain some respect for each GLO, though, as this thread is getting entirely too close to ritual.

Thanks for listening - I'm off my soapbox now!

PS: BTW, I was recently at such a discussion within my own sorority. The key word is respect - for both one's own sorority and for the rituals of the others.
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Old 08-14-2010, 12:23 PM
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Just on a lighter note ^^^: My teacher is getting closer and closer in her information! Gosh, it is good to know that she wasn't entirely off base.

Within my daughter's chapter there is a Bible study group. DD has no idea how many girls join. There are girls in Hillel (which is secular but Jewish based).
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Old 08-14-2010, 12:53 PM
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^^ I think that is what the majority of us were trying to say.
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Old 08-14-2010, 02:11 PM
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"Christian ideals" do not necessarily mean the same thing as accepting Jesus Christ as the Messiah/Son of God. "Christian ideals" is shorthand for the things Jesus taught. That doesn't mean you have to accept him as anything other than a guy who had some lovely ideas. Even people who don't think he's the Messiah still think he existed - i.e. he's not a legend like Paul Bunyan.

Christ is one of our exemplars, and even with that, at no time and nowhere in the member education materials or the ritual do we say "Jesus Christ is the Messiah and the Son of God." We say "many believe him to be the Son of God." Hermes is one of our exemplars too and we don't have weekly meetings to pray to Hermes.

As far as the chapters having Bible study, I've already said that I don't really dig that concept, but apparently in the South it's the rule rather than the exception. However, if you're at a campus where there is ONE sorority who has Bible study and no one else does, I would take that to say that if you're a non-Christian in this group you might not be comfortable.
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Old 08-14-2010, 02:17 PM
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"Christian ideals" do not necessarily mean the same thing as accepting Jesus Christ as the Messiah/Son of God. "Christian ideals" is shorthand for the things Jesus taught. That doesn't mean you have to accept him as anything other than a guy who had some lovely ideas. Even people who don't think he's the Messiah still think he existed - i.e. he's not a legend like Paul Bunyan.

Christ is one of our exemplars, and even with that, at no time and nowhere in the member education materials or the ritual do we say "Jesus Christ is the Messiah and the Son of God." We say "many believe him to be the Son of God." Hermes is one of our exemplars too and we don't have weekly meetings to pray to Hermes.

As far as the chapters having Bible study, I've already said that I don't really dig that concept, but apparently in the South it's the rule rather than the exception. However, if you're at a campus where there is ONE sorority who has Bible study and no one else does, I would take that to say that if you're a non-Christian in this group you might not be comfortable.
My experience with chapters and bible study is that a group of girls has a bible study they attend and they might announce it and invite others to attend during chapter. I haven't heard of a whole chapter having a bible study (not that I'm saying it doesn't happen, but that exact scenario isn't necessarily the rule). I don't see anything at all wrong with a few sisters inviting others to attend their bible study, or a bible study that is comprised of mostly or all XYZ's, as long as it's clear that attending is optional. (That's always been the experience I've had.)
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