How should I have handled this situation?

[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

It drives me crazy when girls say they want a relationship that isn't focused on sex. BUT THEY START EVERY RELATIONSHIP WITH SEX.

Maybe you could try going on a couple dates with a guy first. It really helps with that whole "developing a relationship that isn't centered on sex" thing.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by kddani
I don't know what to tell you about your situation, but I have to say that I find it kind of funny/ironic/something that a church event led to a one night stand?

Hey, whats wrong with that? Ive banged girls from my parent's church. I got head down by the lake from one of the girls. Eventually I ended up taking one of the girl's virginity I met in church.

[winnieb]

Originally posted by kddani
I don't know what to tell you about your situation, but I have to say that I find it kind of funny/ironic/something that a church event led to a one night stand?

I remember in high school one of the main reasons we went to church on Wednesday nights was for the boys. It was a social activity and the parents trusted the people you are with. So many times - it was "mom i am going with the girls to so and so's house" We would go over to someone's house, end up partying and hooking up-- and the parents never thought twice about it-- it was a church activity after all! We had soooo much fun back then! So, church often leads to those types of activities.