What do you find sexy?

[enlightenment06]

Originally posted by 1savvydiva
1) A well-dressed man will make you have daydreams of your entire wedding party! Lately, a bangin' suit sends shivers up/down my spine! Nothing like a well-dressed man...that's sexy!

2) A good-smelling man will make you have daydreams of your wedding night! Lately, my scent of choice has been "Curve for men by Liz Claiborne" OOOHHH LA LA

3) Intelligence is sexy. I want to be able to hold a conversation with you...preferably one that doesn't start off with, "Ay, what yo name is?" All the cologne and dress clothes in the world can't save you if you are stupid.

4) Height. I know some will say that I am discriminating, but I just like a tall, broad man! I am 5'10" myself, and I just want to look up to you.

5) Humility. I think it is sexy when a man realizes that there are times and places where it just is NOT imperative that you have the last word. Deference/Reverance to God, elders, authoritative figures, etc...I love it.

6) Goals/Drive. There is something about having a conversation with a man when he gets this gleam in his eye as he is telling you his masterplan for his life. When he is going on and on about things that are passionate to him and he is actually making moves to make that happen, that's sexy.

I have so many more ideals of sexy, but I guess I will stop now.

Sounds like you talkin' 'bout me, although I dunno if six feet is tall enough for you

[1savvydiva]

That will definitely work!

[blutifulRho]

A man that can make me laugh is super sexy...Someone that doesnt take everything in this mixed up and already complicated world to heart is always fun to be around

A man that loves his mom...not a mama's boy..trust me there is a difference

I always find a guy that is adventurous to be sexy...i like doing fun and risky things...however jumping out of a plan isnt one of them...small steps please :-)

A man that can cook is also sexy and i would say the thing i find to be very sexy is good conversation ie. about politics, international policies etc. i knows sounds heavy... but stuff like that interest me.

[1savvydiva]

I just thought of another one...

...a fresh haircut (if you have a fade), or well tapered up edges (if you are a braided/dreaded). Just like men say they like a woman with her hair in place, I like a man who keeps his hair groomed as well, that's sexy.

[Ivy QT2]

Originally posted by sphinxpoet
I think that is because we are the now generation. We don't like to see the long term benefits of people. Beauty fades but goodness is forever. I think we need to get back to that level of relationship building.

Sphinxpoet

The truth is out!
I have so many men tell me that they don't like this type of woman and that type of woman. When complaining, I remind them that I am not like that and they'll agree. Well, guess what? I'm still single.
If every man is looking for a woman like me, why not me? (I am a good looking lady, by the way.)
Married men are always quick to let me know how the men are missing out with me and that if they weren't married they would marry me.
And men, it's not me. I am a pretty, educated (Masters Degree), saved woman who lives by the commands and promises of THE WORD. I get along with all people and serve all people.

Which leads me to what I find sexy.

1. A man who loves the Lord and lives obediently, according to his purpose. He has to be like David (don't kill my husband , meaning he must study to show himself approved and then hide that Word in his heart that he will not sin against God.

2. He MUST be able to accompany me to dinner at the White House AND to a cook-out at my country cousins while feeling right at home at both.

3. And finally, a sexy man is able to appreciate the strength that I 've been forced to have for all these years of being alone. Then by gently placing the cup of his hand on the side of my face, looking tenderly into my eyes, kissing my forehead and pulling me close by pressing his hand in that special place at the small of my back, make me feel like he's got it from here.

That's sexy.

[sphinxpoet]

Originally posted by Ivy QT2
The truth is out!
I have so many men tell me that they don't like this type of woman and that type of woman. When complaining, I remind them that I am not like that and they'll agree. Well, guess what? I'm still single.
If every man is looking for a woman like me, why not me? (I am a good looking lady, by the way.)
Married men are always quick to let me know how the men are missing out with me and that if they weren't married they would marry me.
And men, it's not me. I am a pretty, educated (Masters Degree), saved woman who lives by the commands and promises of THE WORD. I get along with all people and serve all people.

Which leads me to what I find sexy.

1. A man who loves the Lord and lives obediently, according to his purpose. He has to be like David (don't kill my husband , meaning he must study to show himself approved and then hide that Word in his heart that he will not sin against God.

2. He MUST be able to accompany me to dinner at the White House AND to a cook-out at my country cousins while feeling right at home at both.

3. And finally, a sexy man is able to appreciate the strength that I 've been forced to have for all these years of being alone. Then by gently placing the cup of his hand on the side of my face, looking tenderly into my eyes, kissing my forehead and pulling me close by pressing his hand in that special place at the small of my back, make me feel like he's got it from here.

That's sexy.

Welcome soror and thanks for the comments! I totally feel you on them. However the door swings both ways what can the women do to start building those qualities as well?

[Ivy QT2]

Originally posted by sphinxpoet
Welcome soror and thanks for the comments! I totally feel you on them. However the door swings both ways what can the women do to start building those qualities as well?

I'm not sure I understand the question. What qualities are you talking about?

[sphinxpoet]

Originally posted by Ivy QT2
I'm not sure I understand the question. What qualities are you talking about?

I personally feel that you can demand of no one what you can reach yourself. A Lot of things women want in a man I think they should be able to achieve and do as well. I saw a lot on your list and I was wondering what we can do to get Brothers and Sisters to achieve both.

Sphinxpoet

[lovesupreme08]

Originally posted by haroldjohnson
What do I think is sexy? - A poetic woman. I just love a woman who knows the fine art of being a wordsmith. Speech is sexy!


Imhotep #4
Eta Mu
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i believe that a man is sexy if he is articulate, funny, and sweet. Great teeth and locs are definetly a plus. I also enjoy someone who is on the artisitic side i.e. sings, writes poetry, dances.

Peace

[iceandivy]

I love a man who is smart with his money.

That is sexy. You have all the gadgets, sports stuff, CDs and DVDs, subscriptions, and PS2 stuff you need and want, but you have spent at least as much on investments and have little or no debt...

THAT is sooooooooo sexy!

Good credit... sexy!

401K... sexy!

Owning... not renting... sexy!

a savings account for family emergencies (momma needs a stove, cousin needs books for school, auntie needs a new hip) ... sexy!

[jyhad1906]

what do i find sexy

a woman who
-will cook my food
-will have my boy children
-and not need for me to do any thing
while the game is on- or i'm saving the known universe with the help of the Master Chief,
Wha i said it -- I said it -- wha--
and what . thats right i said it cause i'm a grown ass man.
Don't hate me because u have penis envy.



"behind every great man is woman telling him he's wrong'
unknown


Jyhad
I'm just so misunderstood

[Love_Spell_6]

1. Versatility - A man that can go to church, a lecture, a banqet, or a college party if we choose... and know how to wear all hats well

2. A kid at heart - will watch cartoons with me and go see all the X Men movies with me when they come out

3. Handles control well - someone who can put my "assertive" self in my place

4. Submits himself to God and the church ...(as hopefully one day I will submit to him....YES I do believe women should submit to their GODLY husbands!!

5. Athletic/In shape

6. Sensitivity (doesn't think its corny to say "I love you" or get down on one knee for a proposal..or say I love you in front of his friends)

7. A provider - doesn't have a problem with being the provider/protector of his family

8. Financially savvy...

And that's whats sexxy to ME!!

[Love_Spell_6]

Originally posted by jyhad1906
what do i find sexy

a woman who
-will cook my food
-will have my boy children
-and not need for me to do any thing
while the game is on- or i'm saving the known universe with the help of the Master Chief,
Wha i said it -- I said it -- wha--
and what . thats right i said it cause i'm a grown ass man.
Don't hate me because u have penis envy.



"behind every great man is woman telling him he's wrong'
unknown


Jyhad
I'm just so misunderstood

....uhhh are you single or involved?? i'm also curious as to how old you are....u can give a range if you don't want to say exactly...your responses are funny to me! but at least you're honest.

[Love_Spell_6]

The NUMBER ONE quality that is sexxy to me is HONESTY!! I love it when a man will admit something that might get him cursed out....but he's willing to take that just to be upfront with you...

...talk about a rare quality

[BirthaBlue4]

Everybody has pretty much hit it already.

*The sexiest thing is a man who isn't afraid to be affectionate at any time, any where...

*That cute smile where he bites his lip...

*Intelligent conversation, with passion and conviction...