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08-12-2010, 03:20 PM
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OP, you may also want to double check to see whether wearing black to Pref is recommended or discouraged at your school- that'll narrow your choices down substantially. That info may be on the Panhellenic website, or you can try calling the Greek Life office.
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Hmm...I'll have to check on that. I didn't see much info on the Panhellenic site, so I will try to give the Greek Life office a call.
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08-12-2010, 03:32 PM
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I think many of the Modcloth and Macy's suggestions are terrific, but some of the Torrid choices would be a mistake. I think that strapless in general, and tube-style in particular, do not work on well-endowed girls, plus size or no. It's just impossible to look tasteful and restrained with DD's doing their own thing. Support is your friend.
If you're going for a sexy-siren look, that's a different story, but at pref, you won't be.
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08-12-2010, 03:50 PM
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No matter how awesome your dress is, appropriate underwear is key. Bras are such a pain but they make a world of difference on how things fit. Don't be afraid to get things tailored either.
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08-12-2010, 04:19 PM
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I think many of the Modcloth and Macy's suggestions are terrific, but some of the Torrid choices would be a mistake. I think that strapless in general, and tube-style in particular, do not work on well-endowed girls, plus size or no. It's just impossible to look tasteful and restrained with DD's doing their own thing. Support is your friend.
If you're going for a sexy-siren look, that's a different story, but at pref, you won't be.
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yeah, Torrid's whole MO is "big girls can be sexy too." True of course, but not where you want to be for rush. Although the 2 black & white dresses from there in the links would be OK if they fit correctly.
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08-12-2010, 05:14 PM
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yeah, Torrid's whole MO is "big girls can be sexy too." True of course, but not where you want to be for rush. Although the 2 black & white dresses from there in the links would be OK if they fit correctly.
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Torrid is another NSFP for me...there's a reason that it's only one letter away from Horrid.
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08-12-2010, 05:40 PM
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Torrid is another NSFP for me...there's a reason that it's only one letter away from Horrid.
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If you find the right thing, it's totally fine. Depending on places like Torrid or Forever21 isn't gonna fly, though. Sometimes they'll have a few items that would be ok, and sometimes it's hoochie city.
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08-12-2010, 10:25 PM
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I've been searching around and clicking links that have been posted, and I was curious if the following would work for Rush?
This?
Or this?
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08-12-2010, 10:33 PM
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I've been searching around and clicking links that have been posted, and I was curious if the following would work for Rush?
This?
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Looks spot on to me...just give yourself enough time to have the dress shipped and then exchanged if the size is off.
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08-12-2010, 11:03 PM
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I've been searching around and clicking links that have been posted, and I was curious if the following would work for Rush?
This?
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The first one might be a little low cut depending on how big your boobs are, but you could fix that with a cami.
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08-13-2010, 09:39 AM
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I wear a plus size sz. 16 or 18 (depends on the designer or style) and I have to say I find the clothes at Torrid to be a little bit on the 'questionable' side, but maybe that's because I'm a bit older. You can find some wonderful dresses at Dillard's and Belk this time of year at GREAT prices.
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08-13-2010, 09:54 AM
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For the people who keep posting the Forever 21/Wet Seal/Torrid stuff for Pref...think of it this way: This will probably be many PNM's first "grown-up" party, and while yes, there are *some* things from the above-mentioned that you could "get away with", why chance looking like a little girl in her mother's heels when you have the chance to step out on your own and shine?
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08-13-2010, 10:02 AM
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For the people who keep posting the Forever 21/Wet Seal/Torrid stuff for Pref...think of it this way: This will probably be many PNM's first "grown-up" party, and while yes, there are *some* things from the above-mentioned that you could "get away with", why chance looking like a little girl in her mother's heels when you have the chance to step out on your own and shine?
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Because sometimes budgets can be tight, and places like TJMaxx or huge department store sales can be even more hit and miss than Forever21, and that's saying something.
Personally if I find something that I think is appropriate from Forever21 I'll post it with the same disclaimer I usually give: make sure it is long enough once it's on you. My open house dress my first recruitment as an active was from there. If I had a picture I'd post it, but it's knee length with an empire waist and a flowy skirt. It doesn't look like it cost me $30, but it did. And somehow it still looks great (I still wear it to the right events), though I will say most of my items from there don't last very long before they look worn.
All that being said I've never seen anything at Wet Seal that looked appropriate.
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