How to get more friends in my sorority?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by caprice89

The "full black" comment was that I am the only person in my sorority that is not Caucasian. However, one other girl is biracial.

I'll take the advice on trying to spend more time with different people and asking them out. Even though when I've tried doing this girls flake out on me. Even my big and my little both had problems keeping dates with me. It was frustrating especially since they were close and hung out with each other more than myself.

In my chapter, everyone is assigned to a committee by exec and I've never been assigned to a committee that I was really interested in.

Overall, I'm just saying there is a lot of favoritism going on and I want to find ways to overlook that and feel like I'm actually welcomed and part of the sisterhood.

They just don't like you. You aren't as cool as you thought you were. One of the young ladies may even be allergic to "full" Blackness, since you thought that was noteworthy. Run. Run.

[KSUViolet06]

I spent all day attempting to determine whether I was full black or not. lol.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

They just don't like you. You aren't as cool as you thought you were. One of the young ladies may even be allergic to "full" Blackness, since you thought that was noteworthy. Run. Run.

Made my day.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

Caprice89: How big is your chapter?

PS. You posted last fall that you dropped out of recruitment and was interested in COR. I'm assuming that you did join?





Then, you were upset about stereotypes:

And there's the rest of the story.