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Old 08-29-2009, 06:47 PM
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Wow! Thank you for your story. I can't wait to see what happened!
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Old 08-29-2009, 07:12 PM
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Old 08-29-2009, 08:51 PM
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Part 2...

My new school is less than 2 miles away from my old school, separated by Main Street. Each side of Main Street is pretty much an entirely different world. The side that my "new" school is on is very much college town central, while the other side of Main Street tends to be more residential. Main Street is lined with bars and such. The two schools absolutely can not be any more different: school #1 (the school you've read about thus far) is very small (like I said before, around 1200 students total) and prestigious. Thomas Jefferson once taught there, and Henry Clay is a graduate. A lot of the students are pretty "old money" and most of them are from in-state. School #2 is an SEC school, huge on sports, and has somewhere around 40,000 students. Both schools have really great Greek Life (school #1 is actually rated number 4 in the country for Greek Life, though with a total of 8 GLO's who are paired up with one sorority to one fraternity pretty much exclusively, I can't say I agree with that ranking... not to say it's not a great Greek Life, just not sure it warrants a rank of fourth best greek system in the country). My draw to school #2 is definitely its variety of activities and diversity of students. Plus, I'm a MAJOR SEC football/basketball fan... let the flames begin haha

I just wanted y'all to have that background so you can understand what a culture shock it was for me to go through rush at both schools. I can't stress enough how different sorority life is at each place!

School #2 had 12 sororities when I went through recruitment, and three of them are also at school #1. ORANGE is not at school #2 (yet... ) but SLATE, PURPLE, and LIME all are. What's kind of interesting to me is that they all three have similar reputations at both schools, although as far as I can tell, they don't often interact with their chapter at the other school. Haha.. sorry if I made that last paragraph really confusing for you. Once again, just trying to provide some background!

Okay, so the 12 sororities at school #2 (in the order that I think of them, nothing specific) are:

SLATE
PURPLE
LIME
RED
YELLOW
PINK
NAVY
BLUE
TURQUOISE
LAVENDER
MAROON
TEAL


Remember that most of the women in my super small hometown were in RED... many of them are alums of this very same chapter. I actually have five older cousins who are RED, and four of them are currently in college. So I started recruitment with a pretty good knowledge of what RED, SLATE,
PURPLE, and LIME are all about. I had no shortage of rec's for RED (I actually had to tell some people to not send in a rec for me to them, because I didn't want to be "that girl who sent in 15 rec's, haha), plus several rec's for PINK, and one each for every sorority except SLATE, PURPLE, and NAVY. Needless to say, I exhausted every resource I had to get rec's! I felt like a fish out of water going through SEC recruitment. Although I had gone through rush at School #1 the year before, I still felt completely unprepared.


The first rounds (Open House) were split between two days, so we went to six sororities the first day, and six the second day, and we didn't rank until the end of the second day. This made it a little bit hard because it's next to impossible to remember details to differentiate the first house of the first day from everywhere else.

Every PNM wears the same shirt to the Open House rounds, and I paired mine with denim skirts and Sperry's both days. I made a friend immediately, who we'll call Emily. It was pretty apparent that Emily came from a lot of money (Her graduation present? a brand new BMW SUV. Yeah.)

Our first days schedule looked like this:

SLATE
PURPLE
YELLOW
NAVY
BLUE
TURQUOISE



SLATE: Reminded me sooo much of the girls from SLATE at school #1. This group is definitely one of the smaller groups on campus, but it didn't really seem it during Open House. I got a vibe from this group that they weren't a very close sisterhood, though.

PURPLE: Okay, so remember that this is the same group that I had a few, ahem, issues with at School #1. They are one of the largest groups on campus, actually at both campuses, so I was very nervous. I knew I was really supposed to like this group, if I listened to "tent talk," but honestly, I just didn't really see myself here. They seemed very athletic, which is something I definitely am not. They are responsible for one of the biggest philanthropy events on campus, which is very cool, but overall, I left feeling a little unimpressed.

YELLOW: Girls, this sorority is one of the very best examples of why tent talk is wrong! All I heard from the other PNM's was about how this sorority was about to get kicked off campus, and how they were really awkward, etc. When I went to their house, the first thing I noticed was that they all looked genuinely happy to be there. Yes, there weren't very many of them, but the ones who were
there seemed to be really wonderful girls. I left feeling very, very impressed.

NAVY: Another campus powerhouse, according to the other PNM's. They had a wonderful skit, and were all absolutely stunning girls. I didn't see a single girl there who couldn't have been a model, if she wanted to. I had a pretty good conversation with my girl, but I didn't necessarily feel very strongly about them either way. It was one of those situations where I knew I would love to be asked back, but it wouldn't be the end of the world if I wasn't.

BLUE: I had heard that this sorority was known for it's partying antics. The girl who picked me up at the door was really sweet. We had a very long discussion about "The Hills" (lol) and then she brought me back to the living room for their skit. I really loved their skit (it was about something that is no doubt one of my favorite things ever), and I found out that their philanthropy is one of my favorite causes. I really enjoyed this house.

TURQUOISE: To be honest, I don't remember a lot about this house, except that it was at the very end of the day and I was exhausted and sweaty from walking around all day in 90 degree heat/200% humidity, haha. I met a girl who was in the same Astronomy class as me, and had a few good conversations, but it was obvious that both PNM's and sorority members just wanted this party to be over. This was another sorority that I didn't really have strong feelings for, either way.


So, with day 1 finished, and BLUE was my overall favorite. I liked the idea of having a smaller sisterhood with YELLOW, but talk of them getting kicked off campus worried me (I know, I know... tent talk is BAD).

Day 2 will be here very soon. I'm curious as to whether or not you all have any favorites so far?
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Old 08-29-2009, 09:16 PM
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Day 2

I was more excited to begin Day 2 because I was anxious to get to LIME and PINK. Sooo here we go!


LAVENDER: When we walked in this house, I immediately noticed that every single girl had on what appeared to be a Lilly Pulitzer headband. Another girl (Claire.. she and I had a lot of the same houses throughout the week) and I were double-rushed, so I asked our rusher about their headbands. She gave me a really strange look, and said "I have no idea who that even is," then proceeded to focus most of her attention on Claire. Okaaaaaay. I was caught off-guard by their cheer, too. I didn't get the best impression from this house, but attributed it to the fact that our rusher and I just didn't mesh well.

MAROON: Another house that doesn't really stand out in my mind. I remember feeling kind of blah about it. The second girl who talked to me was really nice, and had just gotten home from five months in Europe, which fascinated me.

TEAL: I loved this house from the moment I stepped in the door. The girls were very bubbly and outgoing. Their house is one of five on campus that isn't built like the other sororities'. They had one of the coolest skits, also. I could very much see myself here!

LIME: Oh, LIME! I was both nervous and excited for this house. When I started talking to the girl who had picked me up, she told me she had pledged/initiated at School #1 and transferred to School #2 last year, also. I was absolutely blown away! I still don't know if she was intentionally paired with me (I had made no mention of my experience at school #1 to anyone at all... I kind of wanted to keep it a secret). I really liked these girls, but I was still feeling a little bit scarred from School #1, and talking to that girl didn't really help matters. Mostly, I just felt confused about this house.

PINK: I had three rec's for this house, so I was very anxious to see what they were like. I wasn't disappointed! All of the girls seemed to be very different from each other, yet they all seemed REALLY close. They had a cute skit, and the girl I talked to was wonderful. I was very impressed/excited about this house.

RED: Another house I was excited to visit, because I had so many connections to it. However, I had heard that they had struggled a few years ago. With it being the last house, I was exhausted again, and the girl who picked me up seemed a little distracted. She took me to the basement, which was very loud, and we had to yell to hear each other. I really loved the next girl I talked to, and they had a cute skit. I left with a positive impression, if not a great one.



RANKINGS

This was the night where we ranked all of the houses, so my sheet looked like this:

1.BLUE
1.PINK
1.TEAL
1. LAVENDER
1. RED
1. NAVY
1. YELLOW
1. LIME
1. TURQUOISE
2. SLATE
3. MAROON
4. PURPLE


Just as a note, my "number one's" aren't really in a specific order. 2, 3, and 4 are.
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Old 08-29-2009, 09:17 PM
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I'm feeling the love for yellow, but then again, I tend to root for the underdogs.
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Old 08-29-2009, 09:23 PM
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wildcat10, you have a real talent for enthralling your audience - keep it up!

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SLATE, PURPLE, and LIME all are. What's kind of interesting to me is that they all three have similar reputations at both schools, although as far as I can tell, they don't often interact with their chapter at the other school. Haha.. sorry if I made that last paragraph really confusing
Makes perfect and complete sense to me. I'll never understand it, but it's just the way it is there. Can't wait to read the rest of your story!
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Old 08-29-2009, 09:59 PM
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Man, you weren't kidding when you said it was a long story! Can't wait to hear how things go the second time around!
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Thomas Jefferson once taught there, and Henry Clay is a graduate.
Okay, I thought I knew pretty much everything there was to know about Thomas Jefferson. But this doesn't seem to fit. Does somebody want to PM me? Pretty please?
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Okay, I thought I knew pretty much everything there was to know about Thomas Jefferson. But this doesn't seem to fit. Does somebody want to PM me? Pretty please?
I could have sworn Henry Clay was self taught.
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I could have sworn Henry Clay was self taught.
No, I know which college he went to - when I took a genealogical course, I drew Henry Clay.

And, I am most certainly NOT trying to stalk the PNM - it's my Jeffersonian curiosity - which is why I asked to be Private Messaged.


ETA: Thank you for the PMs! I was in the wrong state.
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No, I know which college he went to - when I took a genealogical course, I drew Henry Clay.

And, I am most certainly NOT trying to stalk the PNM - it's my Jeffersonian curiosity - which is why I asked to be Private Messaged.


ETA: Thank you for the PMs! I was in the wrong state.

Whoops! I'm an idiot. Jefferson Davis went to this school (I'm pretty sure we all know which school I'm talking about now, but I'm refraining from out and out saying it because I know they have recruitment coming up in a few weeks and I'd hate for any PNM's to google it and get any wrong impressions from my story!).

Anyway... although Thomas Jefferson was one of the earliest advocates for founding this school, and was one of the early trustees, he didn't actually teach there. Jefferson Davis, however, did go to school there.

Had to pull out my KY history book for this one... geeze. haha. It's amazing how much we can forget in just two short years!
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Thomas Jefferson, Jefferson Davis - when you're going through Recruitment, they all seem the same! I love the fact that so many schools hold Recruitment prior to the start of classes - it's SOOOO distracting!

As for the GLOs, I'm feeling the pink or the red.
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I'm dying to find out who Red is and if you go there.
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