Interested In Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Penguin08

Yeah that's true. I just said that because if you don't really like the people you're around it wouldn't make sense to sign on to a lifetime commitment with them.

You aren't committing to a lifetime with those people. You are committing to a lifetime with the organizations and its tens to hundreds of thousands of members.

Many of us love the members we bonded with at our collegiate chapters and are excited to keep those bonds for life. However, aspirants should know that 1-3 years as a collegiate member are just a drop in the bucket as long as it isn't a completely unbearable chapter. Plus, aspirants usually don't know what they're talking about. They don't really know the members and aspirants enough to know whether they truly like the people and whether they can bond with them. This is the case at the collegiate and graduate level, but especially at the collegiate level. Some of the best soror bonds and other friendships had EXTREMELY rocky beginnings.

Lastly, depending on the undergraduate and graduate chapters in an area, aspirants can spend a lifetime looking for the perfect mix of people to establish their lifetime commitment.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

You aren't committing to a lifetime with those people. You are committing to a lifetime with the organizations and its tens to hundreds of thousands of members.

Many of us love the members we bonded with at our collegiate chapters and are excited to keep those bonds for life. However, aspirants should know that 1-3 years as a collegiate member are just a drop in the bucket as long as it isn't a completely unbearable chapter. Plus, aspirants usually don't know what they're talking about. They don't really know the members and aspirants enough to know whether they truly like the people and whether they can bond with them. This is the case at the collegiate and graduate level, but especially at the collegiate level. Some of the best soror bonds and other friendships had EXTREMELY rocky beginnings.

Lastly, depending on the undergraduate and graduate chapters in an area, aspirants can spend a lifetime looking for the perfect mix of people to establish their lifetime commitment.

This is exactly what I was getting at.

[Penguin08]

Ooooh ok. I get what y'all are saying now.

[Jill1228]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Sounds like you don't understand greek life among the NPHC but you're not supposed to until you become a member (if you become a member).

Girl, I think she has already dug her grave

Originally Posted by DAC1122

i WILL be a member of a sorority. u can delete thise post if you find it offensive. have a nice day.

I just had to whip out my date book. Had to find out if there is any knowledge of when hell is gonna freeze over...

No date nailed down as of yet...