Perception of sororities nationally

[pbear19]

Part of what I got out of the OP's message also was that would be quite difficult to quantify which are the strongest NPCs nationally, because most people's perspective is skewed by the regional image. Someone in CA might think the strongest NPC nationally is completely different than what someone in TX might think.

Thus it's not practical to think in terms of "national strength", because very few people can distance themselves enough from their regional perspective to make an accurate assessment.

[TriDeltaSallie]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I don't think she ever said that wasn't true (that national reps have nothing to do w/ campus status) and I don't think she was "judging" the Pi Phis. And I don't think she said every Tri Delt chapter is awesome everywhere.

Face it, if there was such a thing as "best sorority nationally" there would be a sorority with NO closed chapters. That sorority doesn't exist.

Yes. And it would be totally inappropriate for me to judge another chapter or sorority when my own chapter has closed (which I discussed at length in another thread I started a long time ago). And I mentioned in this discussion that it was not a "top house" on campus so I'm hardly looking down my nose at others from my own perceived elite status.

My point was that when reading these rush stories about how some women (and in some cases, their mothers) are dead set on getting into a particular sorority on a particular campus, it varies so much from campus to campus as to which sorority is "the one" that the women are gunning for. Reading those sorority descriptions from that Texas magazine was just really fascinating for a Yankee with no southern sorority experience.

The same thing could be said about sororities with which I have no experience. There are a number of NPC sororities with which I don't think I've ever had any interaction. They weren't at my own campus and I've never met anyone from them in real life. So those too are groups that wouldn't automatically come to mind. I'm much more apt to think of the chapters on my own campus.

So, to go back to my original point... The way we think about things is greatly influenced by our collegiate experience, our alumna experience and our geography.

[Denise_DPhiE]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Face it, if there was such a thing as "best sorority nationally" there would be a sorority with NO closed chapters. That sorority doesn't exist.

Amen, NPC sista!

[WarEagle07]

Originally Posted by 33girl

And I don't think she said every Tri Delt chapter is awesome everywhere.

What I think she meant is....put it this way, if you described my chapter to someone at Truman State, or Truman State's ASA chapter to someone at my school, they would look at you, head askance, and say, "You ARE talking about Alpha Sigma Alpha...the ones in red and white...right?"

It's not a matter of "better" or "worse", just DIFFERENT.

I knew I wasn't articulating my thoughts well. I'll try again...the part that bothered me was that the OP was so shocked about Pi Phi being on top but yet she was stated that she could have easily guessed the rest. Really? Out of how many NPC sororities...26? I always thought of it as a given that everyone knows that chapters are not equal from campus to campus, region to region...so why the surprise at Pi Phi and yet the remaining chapters were easy to guess? I'm not affiliated with Pi Phi but just the fact that it was called out by name along with the statement 'I could have easily guessed the rest' sounds a bit like a slam to me.

[TriDeltaSallie]

Originally Posted by WarEagle07

I knew I wasn't articulating my thoughts well. I'll try again...the part that bothered me was that the OP was so shocked about Pi Phi being on top but yet she was stated that she could have easily guessed the rest. Really? Out of how many NPC sororities...26? I always thought of it as a given that everyone knows that chapters are not equal from campus to campus, region to region...so why the surprise at Pi Phi and yet the remaining chapters were easy to guess? I'm not affiliated with Pi Phi but just the fact that it was called out by name along with the statement 'I could have easily guessed the rest' sounds a bit like a slam to me.

I'm sorry if it sounded like a slam. It certainly wasn't meant that way, but I can see how some might take it that way. To be honest, one of the other six on the list was also a surprise to me, but I didn't mention them by name.

My apologies to anyone who was offended by what I said.

I've been a registered member here a long time and comment very rarely. I think I'll just go back to lurking.

[gee_ess]

I took her comments to mean that she was able to easily guess the others (besides Pi Phi) because she has had some exposure to the others and not so much with Pi Phi...
And in making those comments, she actually backs up her observations about campus culture influencing someone's opinion of a particular NPC group.

[baci]

I really think people need to take comments a bit (more) lightly on GC. I don't think TriDeltaSallie meant any harm.

She was just sharing some thoughts and possibly looking for feedback/opinions.

I have been flamed on GC recently for being inquisitive and it was for the very reason that I have not been exposed to all sororities/fraternities in my area and I wanted to know how they were in various regions/states etc. I was just looking for perceptions and general chat - not drama.

[Lil' Hannah]

Originally Posted by OTW

However, (based on what I've seen on GreekChat) there are definitely some alums still obsessed with tiers and being elite.

Yes, it would be nice if they could "...live constantly above snobbery..."

[Cutie_Hootie]

Originally Posted by Lil' Hannah

Yes, it would be nice if they could "...live constantly above snobbery..."

Wow.

I attempt to keep my nose out of these discussions (would much rather lurk!!) but I do have to agree with those brave people who have pointed out that the main discussion here is once again the vast regional differences we all experience. I love talking to my sisters from the South, mostly because I am constantly left with my mouth agape while they tell stories about Recruitment, Southern style. Then in return, they are shocked at my extremely no frills, low quota, small liberal arts college deferred recruitment. That is one of the true gifts of belonging to a national organization--my sisters have had a variety of experiences that we love to share as we work to make our sisterhood even stronger.

I know that we are not the only organization blessed in this way.

[awkward1]

Originally Posted by TriDeltaSallie

I'm sorry if it sounded like a slam. It certainly wasn't meant that way, but I can see how some might take it that way. To be honest, one of the other six on the list was also a surprise to me, but I didn't mention them by name.

My apologies to anyone who was offended by what I said.

I've been a registered member here a long time and comment very rarely. I think I'll just go back to lurking.

Take it with a grain of salt. This is what message boards are all about, stating and refuting opinions. I don't consider stating an opinion to be a personal attack or to be flaming. And I don't believe that Wareagle actually said anything snarky, just stated an opinion and you clarified your statement. Please keep posting but understand that people may not agree with you and may say so in no uncertain terms, and it certainly keeps things dynamic around here!

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by Cutie_Hootie

Wow. Didn't know it was "pick on Chi Omega night" tonight on GC...

I'm pretty sure that comment was not directed at you, Cutie Hootie.

[EE-BO]

Originally Posted by TriDeltaSallie

My point was that when reading these rush stories about how some women (and in some cases, their mothers) are dead set on getting into a particular sorority on a particular campus, it varies so much from campus to campus as to which sorority is "the one" that the women are gunning for. Reading those sorority descriptions from that Texas magazine was just really fascinating for a Yankee with no southern sorority experience.

So, to go back to my original point... The way we think about things is greatly influenced by our collegiate experience, our alumna experience and our geography.

The whole trouble with tiers is that often people take them to reflect on an organization as a whole- and react accordingly.

Any given chapter's reptuation will, I believe, be far more reflective of that specific campus and active members than of the GLO nationally.

The tiers discussion comes up most with large southern public universities for two reasons,

1. At those schools you have a high concentration of people who come from that state, and so it is natural that the regional social "pecking order" will flow into the university's social life.

2. In the South moreso than in other regions- being Greek has, for many people, very important social meaning. In practice, people who let it have a major impact on who they interact with for life have a problem- but the fact remains it is important that you "were there."

I have attended many weddings where ladies were introduced to me with, "This is _____, she was a __fill in the GLO__ at ___ fill in the school." This comes first- even before you find out in conversation that the lady in question is a highly successful neurosurgeon (yes I am laughing thinking about a specific introduction a few years ago as I write this.)

The point is, that affiliation says a great deal about a person right away. It does not tell you if they are a good person. It does not tell you if they are successful in life. It does not tell you that they are better than anyone else. But it does give you quite a bit of background in one simple sentence.

Naturally this is a strange concept to most people. I think country clubs are foreign concepts too for most people- or at least when discussing the many people who join country clubs and don't ever play golf.

Being a part of any GLO a person likes is a valuable experience. And this is why the tiers discussion gets so problematic on a site like GC. Tiers do matter, but only in the very specific context of the college in question- and even then so much depends on whether a person just naturally ended up in a top tier chapter and made a great life experience of it, or clings to it as a crutch for low self esteem or a lack of success for the rest of their lives.

Now than I am nearly 10 years out of school I have seen many high school and college classmates who were "top tier" fall flat on their faces in the real world. And many who were not so sociable in college have done well.

Sure, most people who went to 1st or 2nd tier GLOs have been successful because they were born to successful parents and were raised to be productive citizens. And this is reflected in chapter stats. Non-Greeks at UT do not like the Greeks, but the GPAs of the top tier chapters- fraternity and sorority- are incredibly high. These are talented and motivated people.

But that said, top tier is not a predictor of anything- nor does it confer some magical social status. A person's success and social status comes from far earlier influences (i.e. their ancestry) and- more importantly- what they do with their own lives after college.

In short- I am agreeing with you and taking 2 pages to do it in detail

[TriDeltaSallie]

Originally Posted by EE-BO

The whole trouble with tiers is that often people take them to reflect on an organization as a whole- and react accordingly.

Any given chapter's reptuation will, I believe, be far more reflective of that specific campus and active members than of the GLO nationally.

But that said, top tier is not a predictor of anything- nor does it confer some magical social status. A person's success and social status comes from far earlier influences (i.e. their ancestry) and- more importantly- what they do with their own lives after college.

In short- I am agreeing with you and taking 2 pages to do it in detail

Thank you!

There were three very clear (and at times somewhat hostile) tiers at my school - to the point where women from different tiers would cross the road so they didn't have to pass by each other. But it is interesting because even though my own chapter would have been considered bottom tier, we had many wonderful women in our chapter who were not in any way hindered by being in a "lesser" chapter. In fact, I think it was a distinct advantage in some ways.

My second year in the house we had the Greek Pledge of the Year.
My third year in the house we had the Panhel President and a sister on Homecoming Court.
My fourth year in the house we had a finalist for Greek Woman of the Year and one of the University Outstanding Seniors.
We had Greek Week Co-Chairs I believe every year I was there and usually more than one each year.

Bottom tier does not mean inferior members. It just often means women who found what they were looking for somewhere else.

So if someone wants to look down on me because I was a low tier sorority member, that's their prerogative. However, I was the woman who was the finalist for Greek Woman of the Year and one of the University Outstanding Seniors. And I honestly don't think I would have personally won those honors if I had been in a top tier house. I had far more opportunities in a bottom tier chapter that was perfectly suited for me.

All that being said... and I realize I'm going way out on a limb here... If someone offered a million dollars to guess the top 6 groups on a campus, how many people would randomly pick 6 of the 26 groups? No one would. Every one of us would draw on our experiences and knowledge of the groups, the region the school was in, the strength of different groups by state and/or region, etc. to try to guess it accurately. Those who have a lot more knowledge about all 26 of the groups would have a distinct advantage in trying to guess as opposed to those of us who may only be marginally familiar with 8 or 15 or 20 of them or only have limited regional experience. I don't think that having ideas about different groups and their perceived strength both locally and nationally makes someone un-Panhellenic.

Now running for cover...

[Zeta13Girl]

Originally Posted by TriDeltaSallie

tiers at UTexas which was shared in this comment.

Wow never saw that comment before and I actually find it quite offensive, although its funny how arrows and angels states "Pi Phis don't have to flaunt what they've got. When you've got everything-money, a good name, good looks, and status-what's the point?"
Then why is it necessary to write out who is what tier and why they make that tier. If you have that status then you'd think everyone would know and you wouldn't need to put it out there. But what do I know I'm just a damn Yankee/midwest country girl.


Nothing against the Pi Phis here you could be a great group of girls at UT for all I know.

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl

Wow never saw that comment before and I actually find it quite offensive, although its funny how arrows and angels states "Pi Phis don't have to flaunt what they've got. When you've got everything-money, a good name, good looks, and status-what's the point?"
Then why is it necessary to write out who is what tier and why they make that tier. If you have that status then you'd think everyone would know and you wouldn't need to put it out there. But what do I know I'm just a damn Yankee/midwest country girl.


Nothing against the Pi Phis here you could be a great group of girls at UT for all I know.

FWIW, those comments were copied from some dumb article, not necessary arrows and angels' opinion. Totally agree with the "if you're so top tier, you don't need to point it out" sentiment, though.