What turns you on?

[Lasonja]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

ETA: I had to change mine up a little bit, because it was turning into more of a personal preference list. Turn ons and personal preferences are different.

Nice feet with an arch (no flat feet), smooth nice shaved legs (no cankles) sheer nylon stockings, black, white, or blue tights, long hair (no weave) nice shapely butt, but if it's flat I'm good with that, just as long as she's got nice feet and legs. Nice smell (good personal hygiene) Laughs a lot (silly), nice hands (no fake nails) nice feet, nice feet, nice feet, nice feet....pretty toes. Love me some pretty feet on a woman..lawd have mercy, I melt. She's gotta have that, or we'll just have to be friends or something. I like it when she wears flats too, with tights, or stockings. Leggings are a turn on too.

Saving the best for last. When she crosses her leg, and subconsciously dangles her shoe from her toes.
Damn that's sexy! M M M...Lawd have mercy!!!

The end.

Lol! You are a freak! I have flat feet so I guess I wouldn't qualify.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

Add your own!

Ralph Nader

[NinjaPoodle]

5'10 and up
handsome or cute "Boy-next-door" look (I tend to find men from the south and back east have this look as opposed to the california "pretty boy male model look")
Tank tops + jeans that fit well
crisp clean diction
Short or no hair
Around the jawline gotee<--super sexy!
physically fit
has a "manly sense" about him but knows when to put it in check
self-assurance, self-confidence -- huge difference from being arrogant
Perfectly tailored suits and fresh-pressed preppy clothes (i stole this one)
Home-trained (that goes without saying)
pheromones that work on me
Knows the difference between sex and love and can do both. WELL.
A deep voice (stole this one too)
Likes sports
Book smart as well as common sense
Loves and deeply respects his mother & father

[tnxbutterfly]

glasses

musical ability ( I'm a sucker for guys who play acoustic guitar)

jet black hair

good manners

5'5 or taller

has a relationship with God

likes to read

boy-next-door type ( I like them on the nerdy side)

[cheerfulgreek]

^^^^ Yep. I pretty much like what you like lol.

I'm a little over 5' 6" and a half, so taller than me, but not over 6ft.
Well dressed
The boy next door look and I love hot guys with glasses. The round frameless ones are so sexy to me
Very handsome face
Lips
When he wears cuff links, nice ties, tab collar shirts, and the suspenders that button on the inside of his pants (not sure what those are called) with his suits. That's so hot
Takes pride in the way he dresses
Yes, I know this is weird, but when he orders his food from the menu, especially if it's somewhere formal.
Confidence, cocky, but at the same time very humble

[PhoenixAzul]

-guys in chuck taylors
-tattoos (only well done tattoos...fake tribal and chinese characters do not count)
-piercings/stretched lobes
-glasses
-Co. Clare accents, or Kildare accents, and Belfast as well. Not all British accents are nice...Glaswegian accents can be killer, and Jordys can be as well. The dignified British accent most people fall in love with is mostly Cornwall and Londonish bits, although Shropshire and Manchester accents are nice as well. Welsh are quite cool. Some Northern Irish accents are great (I happen to love the Co. Down accent, but MAN I need a translator for Derry.)
-Red heads (hehe)
-Guys with nice bicycles. Hotness of boy greatly increases with awesomness of bike.

[MeezDiscreet]

Bald head with a goatee
Manly men--not the ones who wear tight t-shirts and thumb rings
A guy with an intense expression. I don't know if that makes sense but it's the best way I know how to put it.

[piphiangel314]

-Tall (Over 6'1'' preferably. My ex was 6'8''... I am 5'2''. So I mean TALL.)
-Dark hair and dark eyes
-Baseball players
-Clean shaven
-Tattoos
-Deep(er) voice
-Sense of humor
-Protective
-Not emotional 24/7
-Southern boys are nice in general too

[BlessedOne04]

Political thinking poets who practice good hygiene and are secure in their manhood.

[SOPi_Jawbreaker]

pale white guys with dark hair and dark eyes

deep voice

nice upper arms (not HUGE like a bodybuilder, just muscular enough to look like he works out on a regular basis)

average build...I'm not picky about height as long as he's still taller than me when I'm in heels, so he just needs to be at least 5'6"...i do sometimes guys that are skinnier than average, just depends on if the guy can make that skinny scrawny look work for him

intelligent but not obnoxious about it

sarcastic/sardonic sense of humor

musical ability (especially if he plays guitar)

laid-back personality

can look good in a shirt and tie for work but then can relax in a t-shirt and jeans at a dive bar after work


Basically, my dream guy would be like Ted Mosby but without the super-eagerness to get married.

[tld221]

ooh good one.

• men who know what theyre talking about (not in a common sense kind of way, which is also a turn on, but ones who are very educated in a particular topic)
• locs (long, groomed, clean ones, esp when tied back? yesssssssss)
• men who dance and not just grind up against you in the club (well those are ok too, depending on the type of night it is)
• women who wear men's articles of clothing (suit vest, ties, fedoras)
• glasses (particularly frameless ones, like the lawyer-types?)
• arrogance (to an extent, i guess more like overconfidence?)
• speaking slow and with conviction (Obama 08!)
• mysterious types (the ones who dont really tell you much or cant read right away)
• black men in business casual (and not baggy khakis and a too-tall polo with sneakers. i mean the clothes have to fit right)

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally Posted by tld221

ooh good one.

• black men in business casual (and not baggy khakis and a too-tall polo with sneakers. i mean the clothes have to fit right)

AMEN to that soror!

[Dionysus]

Originally Posted by tld221

women who wear men's articles of clothing (suit vest, ties, fedoras)

Ahhh yes, so sexy, so sexy!

Originally Posted by tld221

black men in business casual (and not baggy khakis and a too-tall polo with sneakers. i mean the clothes have to fit right)

Absolutely, I'm so sick of seeing black guys in white tees, baseball caps, and sagging pants. There's only tiny minority of preppy looking black guys in St. Louis. I'm not overexaggerating or stereotyping, come see for yourself, if anyone doesn't believe me. I also like black guys with that artistic look that a few of us mentioned the other thread. They are even less common than the preppy type. Grrrrr....

[SOPi_Jawbreaker]

I thought of another one. Kinda weird, but I love guys with big noses. I think it just looks so masculine. And plus, if we had kids, it would balance out my small nose.


ETA: WOOHOO!!! 1000 posts, finally!!! And it only took almost four years and a half years.

[Scandia]

sarcastic/sardonic sense of humor

You know what? This is one of my biggest turn-OFFS. Shows you everyone has different tastes.