PLEASE HELP! I am SO CONFUSED with GREEK life.

[kathykd2005]

Originally Posted by AlphaGamUGAAlum

I think Sperry is going for one of the faster bans in GC history. Check out the other posts.

ETA: Scratch that. Sperry's first post was over a month ago. Not so fast really.

I'm afraid to... haha

[banditone]

i was just kidding. didn't think there was a TKE chapter at U of A.

[elainebenice]

"B) "i can just grab a couple girls at the end of a party and take them to my room"

i hate to be the one to say this, but this should be the least persuasive reason of the 3. this is b/c, if you hang around until the end of a party/bar closing, you can usually find someone to go home with and this isn't reserved just for frat guys either. it applies to both sexes, greek and non-greek. this isn't something a particular frat has cornered......trust me.

[FSUZeta]

the above post reminds me of 2 old songs that seem appropriate to the post:

"why don't we get drunk and screw?" and

"the women all get prettier at closing time"

[SnuKnight172]

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

if you are suave and debonair you will "get" girls whether you are in a fraternity or not. if you are a geeky nerd, i doubt that being a fraternity member will assist in the notching of your bedpost.

for the majority of "girls", it is more about the individual than the organization he is a member of.

I would agree with you 90% of the time on this one. Usually if you couldn't get girls before the Fraternity you wont get girls with the Fraternity. However the remaining 10% of the time being greek throws you into social situations and helps many of the quiet more reserve guys break out of their social chastity belt. If a guy is a good brother and is truly a normal guy (looks & attitude) this will show when in these social settings and ladies will take notice.

[Tom Earp]

Okay, is the Dude a Nut Case or someome asking a question?

Go for-

[samjones]

thanks to ALL of you for the replies. i finally found the answer to my question..and am no longer confused lol. the fraternities ive rushed/gotten bids are all the same as far as trying to convince me that joining theirs will give me a eutopia of women. so im going to rush around some more and maybe i'll find one that doesn't lie and try to "cheat me" into joining.



once again a BIG thank you to everyone that replied. all of ya'lls answered helped.

roll tide!

[kathykd2005]

Hopefully, you'll find the one for you--if not, then maybe Greek Life is not for you. Good luck!!!